Saturday, September 12, 2009

Is Your Spouse Cheating On You? Here's How To Find Out!

By Grant Dougan

Whether we like it or not, it is important to realize that cheating is something that happens in half of all relationships. No one likes this statistic, but the truth is that lots of relationships end due to dishonesty. If you have ever wondered whether you are with a cheater, check out this easy way to know for sure.

This isn't a difficult to thing to do, and if you start right now, you can have your answer in less than two hours. Check out these three steps and figure out what is going on now!

Stage 1:

This is the hardest part, and it isn't even all that bad. Find a time when you can get your significant other's phone away from them for about ten minutes. They should not know that you have it and it shouldn't be all that difficult, either.

A few ideas on how to get their phone away from them may include waiting until they are taking a bath or waiting until they have run to the store or out for a run. Everyone is different and these best times may not suit you, but these are just a few examples that other people have found worked really well for them.

Part two:

Check out the call logs that are listed on the phone. Check out what the incoming and out going calls are going to be.

Once you have that information, get out a slip of paper and write down all those numbers. This doesn't take very long at all, and now you have a list of twenty or so leads. Once you have done this, replace the phone precisely where you found it.

Step 3

The final step here is simple and it is also the most important when you are looking to find if something weird is going on.

In this step, you'll be able to figure out who owns each phone number on the list that you have created and who precisely your significant other has been speaking to.er

When you want to get the details that are important from the number that you called, you are going to need a reverse phone lookup. This is a key factor for helping you catch a cheater.

With a reverse phone lookup, you'll find that you need to take a phone number and find out what the details are about the person who owns it. Find out the person's name, address and other background information.

Look for a reverse phone lookup service that will really help you. The ones that really work will cost a few bucks, so what you are looking for is a service that will let you work with just a one time fee. With a single use membership, you can have unlimited lookups for a short time and you can look up ever number that you took downhearted

At this point, what you need to do becomes obvious. Run a lookup on every number that you have found. Check for name matches and who your significant other is calling. When you are comparing the information, you will find that there may be something that leaps out at you.

Using the reverse phone lookup strategy is one of the best ones for finding out if your significant other is straying. Take some time and really consider what you your options are!

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