Tuesday, June 8, 2010

How To Attract The Ladies

By Tom Tables

As much as we hate to admit it, a lot of guys are not that good when it comes to the subject of dating (click here to find more on this). You may be dating different women for well over fifteen years now, but if you haven't mastered the skill to make girls swooning over you, you are in a lot of trouble.

Most men who can't get a second date are making the same mistake on every first date. The purpose of dating is to establish a connection with another person of the opposite gender on a social level.

Most of the tips we're offering are plain common sense. Think about what you want from a date and try to consider it from a woman's perspective. Men and woman are often seeking the same thing from different angles.

Be A Man

A man or woman who exudes confidence is irresistible. A man who is arrogant is completely resistible. Confidence is the quality of being sure of yourself while respecting those around you. Arrogance is acting like you are the only person on the planet that matters. When you approach a woman, tell her you are interested and would like to know more about her.

If you come off as arrogant rather than confident, the tendency is for girls to drop hints of distaste or appear uninterested in you. By being confident, you just need to warm up to her.

Once you introduce yourself, compliment it with a smile and tell her something interesting about yourself. Arrogant people tend to give their dates too much information about themselves, which is something that you should avoid.

Keep your attitude friendly and don't crowd the lady. No one wants their space invaded unless they invite someone to come close.

Demonstrate Your Interest

Girls absolutely love being adored, which is why you need to keep your focus on your date. Show her that you care about what she thinks or the things she finds interesting.

When you're on a first date, keep the conversation going. Find out about the lady's interests and passions. If she asks questions about you, answer them fully and honestly. Pay attention to non verbal signals. Her attitude should give you clues as to when and if you should ask for a second date.

Make a point of complimenting your date on her appearance. She probably put some effort into looking her best for your date. If you can't make your date feel like the most beautiful and fascinating woman in the room, you're probably out with the wrong woman and she'll know it.

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