It can be very hard to succeed in getting back together with someone who has dumped you. They obviously don't have feelings for you anymore if the dump you, otherwise they are now unsure about how they feel for you so have dumped you instinctively.
Convincing them that a relationship with you is the best thing for them isn't easy. Really you don't want to talk your ex into being with you or convince them of anything. In an ideal world you want them to just come back to you with no convincing need on your part.
In order to fix things with your ex and get your relationship back together, they need to see that you are still interested by little hints from yourself. Whilst things are still bitter between the two of you however for the first few weeks, keep contact with you ex to a minimum, do not see or speak to them at all if you can help it.
After a few weeks have passed just send your ex a simple text message asking them how they are. If they don't answer you then leave it for a few days and try again. You need to leave it a few days to give your ex time to receive the message.
If you send them multiple text messages within the space of a few hours you will look desperate and silly. Imagine if your ex didn't check their phone for a few hours only to come back to it and find several desperate messages from you.
Just one text is adequate; this is enough for them to respond to you if they want to. There is the option of calling your ex on a withheld number to check if their phone is working or not if they have not come back to you in a few days.
You cant be sending messages if no one is going to even get them. However if your test proves that their phone is working and they still do not respond to you then maybe it is time to accept that they are not interested.
Not all relationships are fixable; you will have to give up after a certain amount of time. If your ex does not respond to you at all then your chances of getting them back are sadly very slim.
Convincing them that a relationship with you is the best thing for them isn't easy. Really you don't want to talk your ex into being with you or convince them of anything. In an ideal world you want them to just come back to you with no convincing need on your part.
In order to fix things with your ex and get your relationship back together, they need to see that you are still interested by little hints from yourself. Whilst things are still bitter between the two of you however for the first few weeks, keep contact with you ex to a minimum, do not see or speak to them at all if you can help it.
After a few weeks have passed just send your ex a simple text message asking them how they are. If they don't answer you then leave it for a few days and try again. You need to leave it a few days to give your ex time to receive the message.
If you send them multiple text messages within the space of a few hours you will look desperate and silly. Imagine if your ex didn't check their phone for a few hours only to come back to it and find several desperate messages from you.
Just one text is adequate; this is enough for them to respond to you if they want to. There is the option of calling your ex on a withheld number to check if their phone is working or not if they have not come back to you in a few days.
You cant be sending messages if no one is going to even get them. However if your test proves that their phone is working and they still do not respond to you then maybe it is time to accept that they are not interested.
Not all relationships are fixable; you will have to give up after a certain amount of time. If your ex does not respond to you at all then your chances of getting them back are sadly very slim.
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