Tuesday, January 26, 2010

Confidence During Dating Will Help A Lot

By Vanessa Cruz

The most searched attribute in a man or a woman is his/her confidence. Confidence does not mean to grab any girl's hand in public or expressing yourself in front of your friends. Confidence is a characteristic feature that cannot be built up overnight or in short span of time. It takes years to build confidence within you.

Confidence appears in the eye of the beholder. There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. A confident person will never overdo or over show his/her skills, whereas an arrogant person will always underestimate situations and resulting in failure. While discussing over confidence one must also give special attention to its opposite which is fear. Fear of any kind can turn a man into a geek who will always underestimate their true potential within.

Lack of self-confidence results in depression can be the-most unhealthy feeling. When you love somebody you should always be confident about yourself and also about the feeling, which you have for that special person. Possessing a special feeling for someone and not being able to express it, can also be signs of low self confidence.
Individuals with high belief and self-confidence can make their way out of every situation. A confident man is one who is very much self-assured and very well knows about his strengths and weaknesses. Most women like confident man, one who knows about himself, knows what he can do or what he may be able to do, one who never fears to give it a try knowing that he might fail, and that thing in men drives most women crazy and they find it to be very attractive.

If you are going for a date where your partner's family members are also present, then running away is certainly not a positive sign for you. You should be bold and confident enough to prove your eligibility to your partner's parent. Good presentation with nice behavior and impressing words can get you want you desire. The same goes for women as well. Mostly men search for individuals who can adjust beautifully with his family and can maintain a fine balance between her own as well as other relationship. Being selected by the right person can be very satisfying both physically and also mentally.

Guys who lack confidence pre-decide over most situations and wait for their partner to make the first move. The most underlined fact about confidence is that most confident men or women more often than not get their desired partners. The truth about confidence is, it can give a whole new dimension to a person's attitude towards people and their lives. A confident man always looks good, dresses good and most importantly feels good about him. So be confident and the world will be under your feet

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