Men; they can be tricky and funny creatures can't they?? I've dated a lot and have had countless encounters with the opposite sex, and they can still baffle me. Far too many women just never had a clue that they were getting horizontal with someone else's man. Fortunately there are some tell tale signs that are not difficult to spot.
The thing is, if you're not the only gal in your guy's life, then you're getting played just as much as the others. This makes your guy a double sleaze. You need to protect yourself from emotionally difficult and dramatically unnecessary situations. Read on for seven signs that you're not the only woman, and perhaps not even the main one in your man's life.
He never ever stays overnight
Unless he has some kind of weird phobia about never sleeping in someone else's bed, in which case you need to ask yourself what you're doing with this head case, chances are he is laying his head next to someone else for a full night's sleep.
You don't spend much time at his place
Does your guy become flustered or downright nervous when you drop by his place without warning? He probably hasn't had time to hide the evidence that there's another woman in his life. Or maybe he just doesn't want you to leave evidence of your existence.
His non-committal relationship status on Facebook
This one's a bit tricky. Some people just aren't comfortable putting their relationship status on their Facebook page; they don't think it's anyones business but their own. However, plenty of these same people use this as an excuse so they can juggle multiple romantic partners at the same time.
He never wants to talk about the future
Whenever you bring up couple plans for the future, he'll start acting sad and guilty. He's not your run of the mill commitment phobe so there will be no paranoia. The thing is that he probably is ready for a future; just not with you.
He rarely answers his phone when he's with you
It's always sweet when your honey wants to give you his complete attention during your time together, but if you suspect he might not be answering his phone for a slightly more scandalous reason, there might be something to that. Especially if he ignores multiple calls in a row; that's an unmistakable mark of a woman trying to get a hold of her man.
Try innocently commenting to him that while you appreciate the courtesy, you certainly don't mind if he has to pick up his cell every now and then to tend to "work" things. If he still acts hesitant to get cellular around you, he might have something to hide.
No introduction to his friends and family
Lots of guys are slow to introduce new girls to the other important people in their lives. And I kind of like that. It means, when it does happen, that you are part of a special selection and not just one of many who all go through this. However, if you've been dating someone for months and they still don't take your relationship out on dry land, it's not unreasonable to think that maybe you aren't the main girl in the other parts of his life because someone else already is.
He has a shower prior to leaving your place
If he has to run out right after the two of you make love, couldn't he at least just shower at his own place? If he's hitting the clean before he makes an exit, it's likely that he doesn't want to arrive where he's going next smelling like you.
The thing is, if you're not the only gal in your guy's life, then you're getting played just as much as the others. This makes your guy a double sleaze. You need to protect yourself from emotionally difficult and dramatically unnecessary situations. Read on for seven signs that you're not the only woman, and perhaps not even the main one in your man's life.
He never ever stays overnight
Unless he has some kind of weird phobia about never sleeping in someone else's bed, in which case you need to ask yourself what you're doing with this head case, chances are he is laying his head next to someone else for a full night's sleep.
You don't spend much time at his place
Does your guy become flustered or downright nervous when you drop by his place without warning? He probably hasn't had time to hide the evidence that there's another woman in his life. Or maybe he just doesn't want you to leave evidence of your existence.
His non-committal relationship status on Facebook
This one's a bit tricky. Some people just aren't comfortable putting their relationship status on their Facebook page; they don't think it's anyones business but their own. However, plenty of these same people use this as an excuse so they can juggle multiple romantic partners at the same time.
He never wants to talk about the future
Whenever you bring up couple plans for the future, he'll start acting sad and guilty. He's not your run of the mill commitment phobe so there will be no paranoia. The thing is that he probably is ready for a future; just not with you.
He rarely answers his phone when he's with you
It's always sweet when your honey wants to give you his complete attention during your time together, but if you suspect he might not be answering his phone for a slightly more scandalous reason, there might be something to that. Especially if he ignores multiple calls in a row; that's an unmistakable mark of a woman trying to get a hold of her man.
Try innocently commenting to him that while you appreciate the courtesy, you certainly don't mind if he has to pick up his cell every now and then to tend to "work" things. If he still acts hesitant to get cellular around you, he might have something to hide.
No introduction to his friends and family
Lots of guys are slow to introduce new girls to the other important people in their lives. And I kind of like that. It means, when it does happen, that you are part of a special selection and not just one of many who all go through this. However, if you've been dating someone for months and they still don't take your relationship out on dry land, it's not unreasonable to think that maybe you aren't the main girl in the other parts of his life because someone else already is.
He has a shower prior to leaving your place
If he has to run out right after the two of you make love, couldn't he at least just shower at his own place? If he's hitting the clean before he makes an exit, it's likely that he doesn't want to arrive where he's going next smelling like you.
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