Thursday, March 31, 2011

How Direct Should You Be With Women?

By Alex Decoto


There are men that are really masculine and mature. They do one thing that almost all other men don't do. I mean, when you will hear it, it will sound very counter intuitive to you. It is because it takes true courage.

You and some woman agree to go on a date together. Let me mention something important by the way. Some women will test you when you ask them out. They will ask you if you are really asking them out on a date. Most men will beat around the bush and avoid telling the truth. You need to be direct and tell her that you're asking her out on a date.

Anyway, you go on a date with her and before you know it, you are with her somewhere where you can both proceed to you know what. Now, here is where the crucial mistake happens.

Most men do this part wrong. Most men that don't want a relationship don't tell that to the woman. In case you didn't know, women are more bound to get attached to the man after sleeping together. Even though a lot of women want one night stands too today, many are still afraid to admit it. Plus, most women can't control their emotions. They get attached to most men they sleep with whether they like it or not.

Yes, you need to tell the woman that you want only physical intimacy before you actually sleep with her! I know that you are looking at me in horror. Hey, I admit that this is not the safe way to get to last base. However, women will appreciate it so much. Most women consider men sleazy. You have to think in abundance because that is how true players think like. They don't worry about getting rejected by some women. Let's face it, after you tell the, some of them will reject you. But, it is going to pay off long term. You will get much respect for this.




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