Many a guy has been at a nightclub, seen a hot girl and thought, "Wow! She really works those boobies, bouncy bouncy."
Next, he went up to talk to her and within the first thirty seconds of conversation the poor bastard went belly up as she hammered him to jelly.
He, then, walked away hunchbacked and long faced, wearing an existential funk ten times the size of his deflated ego.
Maybe you've been there before? I know I have. I used to be so scared to pick up women that I'd imagine them pointing out all of my physical flaws. How cool is that - I'd reject myself before she got a chance to reject me.
If you never learned how to pick up women, then doing so can seem more challenging than climbing Mt. Everest.
Here's the thing: more often than not, men pick up women for their beauty alone - and women are well aware of this. They can entrap a man without making a single peep.
Half the time, even if you find them as sexy as a hemorrhoid , they'll still think you're trying to pick up on them.
This, of course, is about to change. So keep reading...
Seeing most men pick up a woman is more embarrassing than stooling oneself in public. Think of the woman as a pro fisherman with tasty bait and the man as an unlucky fish who's minutes away from being flayed, sauteed, and eaten for dinner.
Even if he's a fighter, it's too late - he's already on the hook (albeit, if he happens to be her physical type, he's got a shot at success).
But unbeknownst to them, I'm not the passive, dumb trout they're used to catching. I'm a great white shark ready for battle. The second they sense they've hooked me in, I taunt them with my own tantalizing bait.
They chomp down and - hot diggity - I've got them on my hook and I'm reeling them in.
Let's look at an example. When at a bar, I'll stand in a high-traffic area - e.g., near the ladies room or entrance to the smoking patio. When a girl walks by I'll jut out my elbow making it next to impossible for her to avoid bumping into it.
Next, I'll complain, "Ow... you hurt me."
Ninety-seven percent of the time, women will stick their hand out to touch me and apologize with some variant of, "Oh my... I'm so sorry."
I'll quip back with, "Before you can touch me, you need to tell me an interesting story or a funny joke.
This is not only a bundle of fun but also a powerful means of emotionally hooking a woman.
When the average man's groin fills with lust for a sexy vixen, he starts coming up with ways to win her over.
Put simply, she has them emotionally hooked and she knows it. Just about anything they do to impress her, is a sign she is reeling them in even closer.
But I did the opposite: I set the frame that I'm the Prize and she's the suitor trying to win me over.
In all sexual interactions, only one person can be the Prize. Two people can't chase each other at the same time.
There are exceptions but, generally speaking, you want the woman chasing you as a Prize she is trying to win over.
Next, he went up to talk to her and within the first thirty seconds of conversation the poor bastard went belly up as she hammered him to jelly.
He, then, walked away hunchbacked and long faced, wearing an existential funk ten times the size of his deflated ego.
Maybe you've been there before? I know I have. I used to be so scared to pick up women that I'd imagine them pointing out all of my physical flaws. How cool is that - I'd reject myself before she got a chance to reject me.
If you never learned how to pick up women, then doing so can seem more challenging than climbing Mt. Everest.
Here's the thing: more often than not, men pick up women for their beauty alone - and women are well aware of this. They can entrap a man without making a single peep.
Half the time, even if you find them as sexy as a hemorrhoid , they'll still think you're trying to pick up on them.
This, of course, is about to change. So keep reading...
Seeing most men pick up a woman is more embarrassing than stooling oneself in public. Think of the woman as a pro fisherman with tasty bait and the man as an unlucky fish who's minutes away from being flayed, sauteed, and eaten for dinner.
Even if he's a fighter, it's too late - he's already on the hook (albeit, if he happens to be her physical type, he's got a shot at success).
But unbeknownst to them, I'm not the passive, dumb trout they're used to catching. I'm a great white shark ready for battle. The second they sense they've hooked me in, I taunt them with my own tantalizing bait.
They chomp down and - hot diggity - I've got them on my hook and I'm reeling them in.
Let's look at an example. When at a bar, I'll stand in a high-traffic area - e.g., near the ladies room or entrance to the smoking patio. When a girl walks by I'll jut out my elbow making it next to impossible for her to avoid bumping into it.
Next, I'll complain, "Ow... you hurt me."
Ninety-seven percent of the time, women will stick their hand out to touch me and apologize with some variant of, "Oh my... I'm so sorry."
I'll quip back with, "Before you can touch me, you need to tell me an interesting story or a funny joke.
This is not only a bundle of fun but also a powerful means of emotionally hooking a woman.
When the average man's groin fills with lust for a sexy vixen, he starts coming up with ways to win her over.
Put simply, she has them emotionally hooked and she knows it. Just about anything they do to impress her, is a sign she is reeling them in even closer.
But I did the opposite: I set the frame that I'm the Prize and she's the suitor trying to win me over.
In all sexual interactions, only one person can be the Prize. Two people can't chase each other at the same time.
There are exceptions but, generally speaking, you want the woman chasing you as a Prize she is trying to win over.
About the Author:
Josh Lubens, a world renowned dating coach, writes under the pseudonym Swinggcat and has coached men how to pick up women for over a decade. At his website, you can get free pick up lines that actually work.
