Sunday, February 20, 2011

Hiring Planners For Your Wedding

By Mandie English


Thousands and thousands of couples get married every year. A wedding is an exciting time in a couple's life.

If you are getting married you want the day to be wonderful so there is usually lots of planning involved. It is not wise to plan it all yourself so hiring a wedding planner may be right for you if you're planning a big wedding.

In this quick post I'm going to tell you about some of the planners and things you may want to remember for your wedding day.

The most important thing you will need for your wedding day is of course a venue for the wedding which will probably be a church. And also a venue, after the wedding for the party.

One person you will want to hire is a photographer. Some people will just have a family member do their photos for them but seeing as a wedding is such a special day you should probably get a real photographer to do this for you.

Something no bride will forget but is worth mentioning is the wedding dress. And of course the groom will need his suit.

You may also need to hire some cars to take you to and from the church. Some people use limos and other nice cars.

Don't forget that you need to send out invitations to your friends and family. You could get wedding invitations made at wedding fairs or at the printers.

Another thing to add to the list is catering. Nobody wants to cook for all their friends and family on their wedding day so hiring a caterer will make this so much easier for you.

Flowers are also something that people have at a wedding although they are not a must. You do not need to go spending huge amounts of money on flowers but just remember that the bride needs a bouquet.

Some people with a bit of money will hire a professional make up artist to do their make up for them. Again not necessary but you only get married once right.

So these are some things to remember for your wedding day.




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Women Dating After Divorce - Get Back In The Dating Game

By Suzy Weiss


Women dating after divorce can seem extremely awkward for many who are coming to recognize this new way of life. Because they have been used to another type of life, it can be difficult and confusing. These women very often feel depressed and lonely. It can often be feelings similar to those in which a spouse dies. There are different types of stages, five in fact, that usually take place soon after. Each one has its place and it can be different for each person. These stages include denial, resentment, anger, and acceptance. When each one has been experienced, and only then can they begin to move on.

Quite often, friends and family push them to start dating again. Unfortunately, they aren't ready until all these above stages are experienced. If the feelings for the ex-husband have not subsided, it can cause even more problems. Psychologically and emotionally, they are left with levels of low self-esteem, feeling unwanted with respects to other men.

At the same time, they do want to move on so that they aren't left alone for the rest of their lives. This often puts them in situations where they are easily taken advantage of, especially by other married men looking for fun.

Because of this, they are left to believe that their new love interest will prosper and that the married men will join them once and for all. Of course, for this to occur, it would take a miracle as this is truly uncommon. So, these vulnerable women wait time and again for visits or phone calls that often don't happen.

This is particularly the case if the children and the father enjoy a loving relationship. The divorced women should always encourage good relationships between children and their fathers. A positive co parenting relationship is possible despite any personal differences that exist between the men and women.

The children should always be first an foremost in the minds of the parents who should share responsibilities with a positive attitude toward the parenting of their children. While the children are seeing their fathers then the women have time enough to meet with other men.

However, it's important that you stay focused and take your time. Very often, men become uninterested in women who rush things, making them run to the nearest exit. That's because we are different, women want lifetime partners and quick. On the other hand, men prefer to take it slow.

Dating a number of women simultaneously is easy for many men. So, if you want things to work, don't rush things, slow them down. Otherwise, your relationship can come to an end and very quickly.




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