Sunday, February 26, 2012

Ways to Get the First Kiss

By Chris Miller


Most men would tell horror stories about the very first time they kissed a girl. Some guys gnashed teeth with the girl and got her lips bloodied. Some men claim that they wet their pants right after the kiss, which made things extremely awkward. If you are planning on dating a woman, you've to make sure your first kiss will not be added to the list of terrible first kisses. The first kiss can be incredible. Listed below are some suggestions on how you can get the first kiss.

Getting the First Kiss in Three Steps

Step One. Timing

Most girls expect to be kissed after the date, while you're saying goodbye. To make the kiss work, you should not wait until then to go for it. Kiss her at some stage in the date. Sharing your first kiss after the date may be disastrous because you have no idea how she responded to the kiss. If she likes it, you'd miss the precious reaction. If she liked the kiss, she would blush and act flustered. If she hated it, you wouldn't have a chance to redeem yourself. Again, kiss her during the date, and then you can kiss again afterward.

If at one point at some point in the date, the timing presents itself, seize it. The feeling of exuberance may come after you have laughed together for a time. Hugging at some point in the date can be a prelude to a kiss. Brush your lips across hers to check the waters.

Step Two. Preparation

Even kissing requires foreplay. Preparing her for a kiss is not as hard as it seems. You just ought to keep the mood going, and decide when it's time for the kiss. You can drive or walk about until you reach a quiet venue. If you're jogging, bring a canteen of water that you can share. Sharing a drink is one way to prepare for the kiss. The thought of drinking from something you have touched may give her ideas.

Step Three. Placement

This is the most crucial part of the kissing process, for obvious reasons. If the proximity is not good, you'll find it awkward leaning over to kiss her. If you are already in a good position to share a kiss, you won't need to feel awkward.

You know you're in the best position if you're close enough to whisper in her ear. If there's an empty spot beside her, don't take the seat across hers. Test the waters. You can start by kissing her cheek. If she doesn't push you away, then you can find the confidence to kiss her lips next. Feel free to tilt her chin or stroke her hair.




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