Have you been wondering how do I get back together with an ex-boyfriend? Well, the answer is that it depends on how long the two of you have been apart, the reason you broke up and who initiated the break up? These things will influence the approach you should take.
In the majority of cases it will be easier to get him back if you broke up with him but you weren't too harsh when you did. Generally, if he did the breaking up it might be a little tougher to get him back since if he wanted to come back he probably would have done so already.
Still, you never know so it's worth a try. Try these tips to get him back:
1. Don't wallow, moan, cry, threaten, stalk, or beg. All these things are a huge turn off. Remember, you are just trying to get him to come back to you not take out a restraining order!
2. Try and spend some time with your family and friends. Above all, have fun. This may seem impossible, but remember everyone likes to be around a winner. Remind him about the fun loving woman he first fell in love with. If you go out and have fun, word will soon get back to him and he may start to think he's missing out on something. I'm assuming you don't want to behave like a child and play games, so for that reason I'm telling you do not play the "I'm going to make you jealous so you take me back" game. Avoid doing that at all costs, it's not fair to the new guy and it's quite childish.
3. Give him plenty of space. Quit the 'accidentally bumping into him' immediately. If you are always hanging around, not only will he never be able to miss seeing you, but it is likely he will get used to thinking of you as a back up plan. Not exactly the way you want him to think of you now is it?
Here you go, three simple tips to answer the question: how do I get back together with an ex-boyfriend?
In the majority of cases it will be easier to get him back if you broke up with him but you weren't too harsh when you did. Generally, if he did the breaking up it might be a little tougher to get him back since if he wanted to come back he probably would have done so already.
Still, you never know so it's worth a try. Try these tips to get him back:
1. Don't wallow, moan, cry, threaten, stalk, or beg. All these things are a huge turn off. Remember, you are just trying to get him to come back to you not take out a restraining order!
2. Try and spend some time with your family and friends. Above all, have fun. This may seem impossible, but remember everyone likes to be around a winner. Remind him about the fun loving woman he first fell in love with. If you go out and have fun, word will soon get back to him and he may start to think he's missing out on something. I'm assuming you don't want to behave like a child and play games, so for that reason I'm telling you do not play the "I'm going to make you jealous so you take me back" game. Avoid doing that at all costs, it's not fair to the new guy and it's quite childish.
3. Give him plenty of space. Quit the 'accidentally bumping into him' immediately. If you are always hanging around, not only will he never be able to miss seeing you, but it is likely he will get used to thinking of you as a back up plan. Not exactly the way you want him to think of you now is it?
Here you go, three simple tips to answer the question: how do I get back together with an ex-boyfriend?
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