Friday, June 11, 2010

How To Persuade Your Ex To Come Back To You

By Gary Collins

If you have just come out of a relationship that was not your decision, and you really want to get back with her it can be a difficult time. You would do everything you can to try to get her back.

How then do you manage to convince her to get back with you? This can be a problem if she blames you for the break up in the first place.

Here are a few tips that you could follow to help you to do this.

1. It is a good starting point to actually accept the responsibility for the break up. Sometimes you just have to admit that you were in the wrong, even if your ego tells you otherwise.

You may feel that the break up was not all your fault. But at the end of the day do you really want your ego to stand in the way of you and your girlfriend possibly getting back together?

2. It may be that you need to forget her for a while and try to move forward in your life. Having a good time and being fun to be around can make a refreshing change from sitting around and dwelling on the break up.

Getting on with your life is not the easiest thing to do when you have just broken up with somebody. But you need to move forward with your life and try to be fun to be with. That way you may even get her to think about taking you back.

3. If you can try to use the same techniques and tactics that women often use then you would probably stand a much better chance of winning her back. This is often known as the female psychology and is a much better way to try and woo her back than feeling sorry and begging for her to come back.

Using the art of psychology can sometimes be a powerful weapon in getting your girlfriend to want you back.

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