Sunday, February 13, 2011

What To Do When You Bump Into Your Ex

By Daniel D. Dalton


You're at the mall and you accidentally see your ex together with his friends, what should you do? Pretend that you really didn't see him or be much more casual and say "hi"? If you're trap in this kind of situation your initial reaction is to hide and think what you ought to do in front of him particularly if you still adore him. When you are in this scenario the greatest thing that you ought to do is to face your ex without any hesitation. Do not let him notice which you nevertheless have feelings on him or you're awkward with you meeting him. Also, make sure which you won't do anything which will make him realized which you still love him.

Caught Off Guard

Meeting your ex after a number of years or months following you broke up can truly be awkward but you can always surpass this by just being your self. You are able to start by giving him a sweet smile and when he smiles back that will be the time which you say hi to him. You can talk about things that happened in past days but never bring back what happened why you separated.

This way it would give you the chance to become friends again. Actually, saying hi for your ex, is not truly a hard thing to do particularly if you currently moved on. Nevertheless, if you are the reason why you broke up that's already a various situation to manage. If the breakup is just fresh for the both of you and the cause why you separated isn't truly great perhaps the first point that you ought to whenever you meet is to smile at him and be casual.

Saying Hello

Saying "hi" to your ex could be a great begin of a new beginning of friendship. You'll never know how it would end maybe you'll turn out to be much more than just buddies and realized which you are truly meant to be together. It's not a bad idea to say "hi" to your ex actually it's the bravest thing to do for couples who are no longer committed to every other. Forget the past and also the cause of the breakup for you to move on so that in case you finally meet each other once again you no longer need to feel pain.

It's A Date

If you haven't had a great conversation to close everything which you had within the past meeting him will probably be a good move. Set a date with him to ensure that both of you are able to move on and forget the points that happened. This way you're giving yourself the opportunity to clear points and patch it up. Don't hesitate to say "hi" it'll assist you to overcome the guilt or pain that you felt. Face him with confidence and never let him notice which you are still in adore with him, show him that you've moved on especially if he has hurt you deeply. Don't be afraid to say "hi" it will make you feel much better.

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