Monday, October 19, 2009

Romance Will Make You Happy - 5 Tips To Improve Your Love Life

By Marc Sandford

It's hard to imagine living a life without love. A love relationship without romance is just as unthinkable. If you love your partner, there is romance in your relationship.

When people complain that their partner isn't romantic, they usually mean that he or she doesn't try to be more explicit in how they express love. They tend to rely to heavily on routines and habits. Habits and routines are the greatest of romance killers.

Romance involves some planning, imagination, and spontaneous living in the moment. Here are some romance tips to get you started.

1.) Be the center of attention. Try over dressing for a place that you wouldn't normally dress up for. Walk into a bowling alley dressed up like you were at your senior prom.

Behave as though you were two teenagers experiencing love for the first time. Don't worry about the attention and looks from others. Some of the other couples there may be envious.

2.) Spend a warm summer night under the moonlit sky in a raft on a clam lake. It may be difficult to line things up just right but this is guaranteed to be one incredible night. Bring some snacks, perhaps a little wine and cheese. Lie down, cuddle, look up at the sky and listen...

3.) Go back to the place where you first met or where you went on your first date.

4.) On a weekend, go to a town or city that you've never been to before. Don't make any plans, just be spontaneous. When you see something interesting, stop the car, get out and explore.

When evening arrives find a place to spend the night. Be sure to buy a keep sake so that you will remember the experience.

5.) Cook a romantic dinner for two together. There should be a lot of playfulness, candles, and romantic music while you cook.

Some of these tips may strike you as impractical and silly, but that is exactly what romance is about (besides love). Now picture spending a life together filled up with these kinds of experiences.

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