Saturday, October 29, 2011

How to live with a long distance Relationship

By Alex Shant


A long distance relationship is the most difficult relationship. This is because of the absence from each other for long periods of time. Feelings may wary away and temptations may get in between the time when both of you are far from each other. Aside from this, there is absence in physical contact which is a very important aspect in a relationship.

However, despite the distance, studies show that there is higher success rate with long distance love compared to having a relationship near you. This is because, in a long distance love, you eject the idea of filtering in a relationship. It means that some flaws are not seen all the time and that is why you don't come out annoying, irritating or even nagging in the relationship. This is because when you are away, you would always want your partner to feel good when you communicate while if you are close to him, it is very easy to tell him what you really think.

So in order for this flawless relationship to work, all you need to do is to continue on making him feel love while you are on the phone. If something bothers you, tell him through words and letters or when he comes back home.

Another reason why long distance relationship works is because people on this kind of relationship always find time to communicate. This is because of the fact that both of you are really hungry for time with each other. Usually, you would have one hour in a day to talk to each other or more.

Contrary to normal beliefs, studies show that when you are in a relationship with a person who is nearby, you tend to pass over time and dates together because of the feeling of security since he is evident in the vicinity. This may lead to feelings drying up because of the lack of time compared to the long distance relationship with constant communication despite the distance.




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