Wednesday, June 23, 2010

Customs For Russian Brides To Know

By Lera Cupidonova

Traditional Russian weddings are much different from what we are used to in the United States. Rehearsals, flower girls, and wedding planners aren't required for this special kind of ceremony. Even so, if you're planning to be one of the traditional Russian brides you're sure to have a magical day. Here are few things you should expect.

There is no best man or maid of honor in a traditional Russian wedding. These people are called by the Russian word "svideteli" or witnesses instead. The wedding party itself can last for as little as two days but sometimes goes for even longer!

One thing that remains the same is prep time. Preparation for a traditional Russian marriage can run anywhere from one month to six months. The registration happens in a public place. For Americans it is usually a courthouse. In Russia they call these departments of public service "Zags".

As a symbol for hopeful longevity, health, and prosperity the new couple is given gifts of bread and salt. These are more than just food. They are the one of the ways for the older generation to bless the new couple.

When given these edible gifts the bride and groom both take a bite. This is again a tradition that is somewhat kept in weddings in the United States, except instead of fresh baked bread we use cake. Whoever takes the largest bite of this piece is supposed to be the head of the family.

Toasts are an important part of American marriages. They are tools in which individuals who are close to the couple can share. In traditional Russian weddings this is no different. The speaker stands and once they are finished everyone takes a drink and cheers.

There are many wedding traditions that require breaking or smashing glass. Russian traditions are no different. When a toast is complete it is expected for the drinkers to throw their glasses on the ground. If they break completely when they land this is believed to be good luck. If blood is drawn, however, the couple could be in for a bumpy road.

Bride stealing is an ancient tradition in many customs. It teaches a certain lesson about due diligence and watching out for what is most important. In Russian tradition they call is Kasha Novelty and it is exactly what it sounds like!

During the wedding celebrations friends and family members of the groom will often set up elaborate schemes in order to snatch his beloved. He has to stay on his toes! If he loses his bride he is then forced to pay a ransom for her return.

There are many things to remember when you are planning to be one of these Russian brides. With all of the differences in wedding styles and all the hard work and gathering it can be easy to lose sight of your goal. Just remember that this is your day and you should be happy. After all, you're about to get married!