Wednesday, March 30, 2011

The Truth About Success And Failure With Women

By Alex Decoto


What is the biggest block that is preventing you from being successful with women? It is your macho pride. It is your presence actually.

The ego is usually referred to as pride. Well, pride is just a nicer word for ego. Are you a egoist? Well, something is sabotaging your success with women. If it is your ego, then you must be an egoist. When I say ego, I am referring to your supposed pride of being an independent man that doesn't need any help with women. This is one of the biggest reasons why most guys stay mediocre with women. They aren't willing to ask for help because of their ego.

Let me tell you my own personal story in order to illustrate my point in the best way. When I was in high school, I knew some guys that were really good with women. I never became their friend. Back then, I just thought that we weren't similar. Now, I know the real reason. Hanging out with them meant a constant remainder that I was not good with women. Actually, my ego and pride were using this as a rationalization. The reality is that hanging out with these guys was only going to bring me success with women. I would unconsciously pick up and start doing what they were doing and as a result improve slowly.

Yes, my success blocks were that strong.

Because you should know that the first thing that you must do if you are not successful with women is to simply admit it! If you want to stick to your pride, I cannot help you and I actually hope you stay mediocre. But, if you manage to put that fake pride away and admit it, you will be more open to learning more about it and getting help from people that have mastered this area.




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