This is no substitute for a full course on flirting, but these 6 tips should get you started.
1. Trim your hair. Get a good haircut. Remove any unwanted facial hair. Guys, try waxing your chest, and ... er... a little lower, too.
2. Walk tall. Imagine a string is pulling from the top of your head, and lifting you off the ground, so you almost float along as you walk. This is a trick that comes from the Alexander Technique.
3. Have some interesting stories to tell. Don't brag, but leave little hints about impressive things you've done. Bait the other person into asking about these things. In fact, if you can tell a story that's mostly about something dumb you did, but it's spiked with little hints of impressive things you've accomplished, that will play very well.
4. Be warmly dominant. One great way to do this is to hire them. If they show some value by telling you about one of their skills, tell them you should hire them to do that thing for you. This sets the frame that you're the big man, and their skills are there to help you.
5. Flirt at any time. Does the woman ahead of you in the checkout line at the grocery store have 11 items in a 10 item line? Give her a hard time about it. Does the little old lady need some fun? Flirt with her. You don't have to flirt only with women you're interested in. It helps to get all the practice you can get.
6. Flirt with your body language. Be open to the other person, unless you're teasing them. Then you might use closed-off body language.
Those are 6 quick tips. Not a full course. Try them, and then continue your education with a full guide.
1. Trim your hair. Get a good haircut. Remove any unwanted facial hair. Guys, try waxing your chest, and ... er... a little lower, too.
2. Walk tall. Imagine a string is pulling from the top of your head, and lifting you off the ground, so you almost float along as you walk. This is a trick that comes from the Alexander Technique.
3. Have some interesting stories to tell. Don't brag, but leave little hints about impressive things you've done. Bait the other person into asking about these things. In fact, if you can tell a story that's mostly about something dumb you did, but it's spiked with little hints of impressive things you've accomplished, that will play very well.
4. Be warmly dominant. One great way to do this is to hire them. If they show some value by telling you about one of their skills, tell them you should hire them to do that thing for you. This sets the frame that you're the big man, and their skills are there to help you.
5. Flirt at any time. Does the woman ahead of you in the checkout line at the grocery store have 11 items in a 10 item line? Give her a hard time about it. Does the little old lady need some fun? Flirt with her. You don't have to flirt only with women you're interested in. It helps to get all the practice you can get.
6. Flirt with your body language. Be open to the other person, unless you're teasing them. Then you might use closed-off body language.
Those are 6 quick tips. Not a full course. Try them, and then continue your education with a full guide.
About the Author:
Tyler Paxon teaches men how to flirt better with women. And he teaches women how to flirt better with men. Discover your flirting IQ with his free flirting assessment at http://how2flirt.com
