Thousands of breakups happen every day. Not all love-romantic relationship ends in a happy ending. Any break up is a hurtful experience and such hurt can cause us to question ourselves and eventually leads to us, doubting ourselves as a person.
We may even think that the relationship ended because we did not do all our best to be what they wanted us to be. Coming from a breakup doesn't mean that there is something wrong with in you. It merely just means that there is something wrong in the relationship. Remember there are lots of big and great people who are not successful in a relationship.
Getting a little bit crazy, crying a river and regretting the relationship is normal once you just got from a breakup. And it is very common that you will look for someone whom you can side on.
But make sure that you're expressing your emotion and deep heartaches with the right person. Some people who experience such break up easily recovers and some also do not, depending on the situation. Others may keep the hurt feelings inside and don't trust anyone.
After break up, we can't deny that we can feel such fury. Acting badly by saying foul words and betraying your ex by telling anyone something bad about him/her makes you look bad. Nobody deserves to be hurt. It doesn't mean that because you were hurt you have to hurt your ex too. Deal with the reality of your break up and learn to let go. Once you found out that your ex have already found her/his true love then accept it and be a sport. Accept the fact and don't ever try to act badly through spreading rumors about them. All you have to do is to forget about your ex and let go of it.
We may even think that the relationship ended because we did not do all our best to be what they wanted us to be. Coming from a breakup doesn't mean that there is something wrong with in you. It merely just means that there is something wrong in the relationship. Remember there are lots of big and great people who are not successful in a relationship.
Getting a little bit crazy, crying a river and regretting the relationship is normal once you just got from a breakup. And it is very common that you will look for someone whom you can side on.
But make sure that you're expressing your emotion and deep heartaches with the right person. Some people who experience such break up easily recovers and some also do not, depending on the situation. Others may keep the hurt feelings inside and don't trust anyone.
After break up, we can't deny that we can feel such fury. Acting badly by saying foul words and betraying your ex by telling anyone something bad about him/her makes you look bad. Nobody deserves to be hurt. It doesn't mean that because you were hurt you have to hurt your ex too. Deal with the reality of your break up and learn to let go. Once you found out that your ex have already found her/his true love then accept it and be a sport. Accept the fact and don't ever try to act badly through spreading rumors about them. All you have to do is to forget about your ex and let go of it.
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