When you first meet a woman your goal is simple. You want to rise above all of the other men she meets every day. Rather than appear boring or average, you want to stand out in a memorable way. Most guys do it wrong by trying to wear something over-the-top or try to talk about strange subjects they think women would be intrigued by. This usually backfires on him.
Separating yourself from the average guy is more subtle then wearing a feather boa when you go out. That's old school pickup artist tricks and it's over. There are a lot of things I think you need to focus on when you first meet a woman but here is what I think is one of the biggest personality traits to express to a woman you just met:
1. Have a passion you are pursuing
I truly believe a passion that you are working towards is much more attractive to women than your wallet, your looks or anything else. Of course some women care about your wallet but they are not the women you want to be focusing on anyway. Ambition is the key ingredient here. Having a true purpose in this life is very attractive. Women actually want you to have something more important than them in your life. A man who chooses a woman over his purpose or mission is not respected by any woman.
Be able to talk about these things openly and with enthusiasm. You should never be ashamed for something you are passionate about, regardless of how much you think a woman won't dig it. Talk as if you assume everyone around you is as interested in it as you are. Die hard convictions in people are very hard to not respect. If you make excuses for your interests then that shows her you are value-seeking. Remember Value-Seeking is an attraction destroyer. Somewhere within the reason you are passionate about something is exactly what is going to bring a sexy, amazing woman into your life. Think about it.
Separating yourself from the average guy is more subtle then wearing a feather boa when you go out. That's old school pickup artist tricks and it's over. There are a lot of things I think you need to focus on when you first meet a woman but here is what I think is one of the biggest personality traits to express to a woman you just met:
1. Have a passion you are pursuing
I truly believe a passion that you are working towards is much more attractive to women than your wallet, your looks or anything else. Of course some women care about your wallet but they are not the women you want to be focusing on anyway. Ambition is the key ingredient here. Having a true purpose in this life is very attractive. Women actually want you to have something more important than them in your life. A man who chooses a woman over his purpose or mission is not respected by any woman.
Be able to talk about these things openly and with enthusiasm. You should never be ashamed for something you are passionate about, regardless of how much you think a woman won't dig it. Talk as if you assume everyone around you is as interested in it as you are. Die hard convictions in people are very hard to not respect. If you make excuses for your interests then that shows her you are value-seeking. Remember Value-Seeking is an attraction destroyer. Somewhere within the reason you are passionate about something is exactly what is going to bring a sexy, amazing woman into your life. Think about it.
About the Author:
Bruce spent years studying attraction like a science and applying the information in the real world to see what works and what doesn't. He now shows men from all ages and walks of life how to meet and date women. Sign up for his free crash-course video or check out his Real World Attraction blog for more information.
