Wednesday, February 16, 2011

Why Being a Solid Guy is Attractive

By Mike Morton


Attracting women is no easy job. Confidence is crucial if you ever hope to start something new with a woman you're interested in. Whether you feel like she's out of your league or like the girl next door, the right communication skills will definitely grab her attention.

Attractiveness has a lot to do with how you take care of your appearance. Put it the other way around: would you approach a girl who looks like she just got out of bed? In that way, women are going to be less inclined to approach you if you don't look well-groomed.

For a woman, it's important that a man dresses with confidence. Take a step back and check out your hair and your outfit. Are your clothes clean and pressed, and does your hair smell good? Being attractive begins with good grooming. Would you even think about going up to a woman who looks like she didn't bathe or comb her hair? Fixing yourself up is surely the first thing to do if you want to attract women.

You don't have to take yourself too seriously. Add a light tone into the dialogue and poke some fun at her in a non-offensive way. Make her feel relaxed. Women like men who can make them laugh, so if you can manage that, it's an absolute plus.

Women appreciate a sense of humor. Comment on her clothes or her accessories, but be careful. Teasing shouldn't be offensive. Rather, it should put a smile on her face and make her feel like you're a guy she can have a great time with. Take note that this is just the first step to a possible relationship and you still have a long way to go. But if you grab her attention with a fun attitude and outlook on life, you're off to a great start.

Being on the same wavelength is a foolproof indicator that a woman is getting more and more excited about getting to know you more. You can see it in the way she speaks and in the manner which she maintains eye-contact. If she feels like you're great company, then half your job's done.

The best way to get a woman to reveal more about herself is to ask questions that are open-ended. If you ask her about her work or other activities by beginning your questions with "how" or "what", you'll easily learn more about her.

You'll only see success with attracting women if you go and try it out. So make sure to be confident when coming up to a woman. Look her in the eye and strike up a conversation that you're in control of. With a little practice, you're sure to get great results!




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