Monday, March 8, 2010

What To Do To Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back

By Steven Connolly

There will never be such thing as a good break up and anyone who has ever gone through one will confirm this. Break ups have that way of making us look at ourselves in a very different light and make us re-evaluate ourselves. Break ups are so moving that it can make even the toughest men shed a tear or two.

When a heart gets broken, it often craves for advice whether they are solicited or unsolicited, good or bad. And often, the most common advices have something to do with letting go and moving on.

Sometimes, the only way to survive a break up is to get your ex girlfriend back.

When it comes to attempting a reconciliation, there is no tried and tested method of doing so.

Everything involves great ounce of patience and hard work in order for you to get your ex girlfriend back. But because women tend to be more forgiving then men, making up may not be far ahead.

Keeping a respectful distance from an ex is only but normal right after a break up. Really, would you even consider wanting to talk to somebody who has shown you the door?

Another thing, there's going to be that air of awkwardness that will deter anyone of you from picking up that phone. Not to mention being labeled as desperate.

But if you really want to get your ex girlfriend back, you must be the first one to reach out.

There are so many means of doing so in this age. You can send a short email or probably a simple text message. Both are effective in making you visible.

Lastly, if you want to be in her "maybe" list and not in her "exes: do not resuscitate" list, then always be thoughtful enough to remember all special dates which includes birthdays and the holidays.

Women can't resist the thought of being cared for and being the center of one's universe. A greeting card can create that impression.

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