Saturday, February 19, 2011

Seducing Girls The Non Creepy Way

By Chase Chandler


Perhaps like any other guys out there, you are wondering how some are able to get girls attention without effort. How can guys actually seduce girls in an instant? And why is such does not come as easily for you?

Well now, with these helpful tips, luring girls towards you will be easier than before.

Image Is Everything

Image is essential. It is everything if you want to seduce a girl. You must have a more than pleasing identity to entice girls. Nobody is perfect indeed but you must be somewhat close to being one. You have to be likable not just to girls but to everyone.

Next is to keep up with your reputation. As people start to like you and get used to your presence, it is likely that you will begin to appear plastic or phony. You also have to let your inner self come out and reveal the human side in you. You may talk about sexuality but only in ways that you think Shakespeare will approve.

Opposites Attract

Moreover, you may be surprised but it helps to do the opposite of what most guys are doing. Say for example, if a guy showers a pretty girl with tons of attention, do the opposite: ignore her. Upon knowing of your reputation, she'll begin to think why you are not paying any attention to her. She may even assume that you have something for her.

Interesting Conversations

Furthermore, when you talk, be mentally seductive. Talk about interesting topics, the kind that are intellectually stimulating. Do not talk about yourself as well. Instead, talk about current events, history, travel destinations and any other interesting subjects. And most importantly, when talking to her, do not forget to maintain eye contact.

Moreover, if you are highly confident with who you are, it is advised that you show your gentler side. The you who is romantic and sensitive. Do not be afraid to be honest enough to show some emotions. Being true to yourself is one characteristic that you can ascertain girls will genuinely admire. On the contrary, if showing your gentle side will only make you appear weak and inefficient, then you may skip this advice.

To Ask Or Not To Ask...

Within the course of flirting with her, you will eventually get to realize if it is about time to take her out. Mind you, timing is of the essence. You ought to know that most girls are not too good with patience. Do not let her wait if you don't want her to elude you. Also, girls are so keen with details and first date. Hence, you have to be good at it.

Additionally, spending considerable time together must yield favorable connection. Create moments and relate to each other in any possible way. Find out each others' likes and dislikes and if you have some things in common, enjoy them.

She is different regardless of who and what she is. You have to remember this all the time. And in doing so, see to it that your actions are catered to accommodate the kind of person that she is. Knowing her inside out will be easier for you to lavish her with the attention and affection that she expects from you.




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