Thursday, May 26, 2011

Advice on How to Get a Girlfriend

By Joe Maldonado


These are some of the most useful tips on how to get a girlfriend:

1. A good way to start out is by talking to women that you aren't trying to get a date with in the first place. This will help you in a sense that you can begin to get more comfortable with women in general.

Many times there is added pressure when speaking to a woman that you know you are trying to get a date with. You are feeling the need to impress her in so many ways, and you know that if you don't, you will fail to get that date you desire. If you casually talk to a woman that you are not trying to get a date with, you can relieve some of this pressure. The key is to try to become more at ease when speaking to women in general, so that when you do happen to meet someone that you have an interest in dating, it will be easier for you to go up to her and start a conversation that could later lead to a date. If you are able to approach a woman with confidence, she will notice how self-assured you are and be more likely to respond favorably to you. Women love a man that is confident in himself.

2. Words are less powerful than body language when flirting.

On many occasions when a man is trying to flirt, he will keep his focus on trying to get a laugh or a smile out of the woman. This sort of thing can work at times, but there is a better way to go about it that will be more likely to bring you positive results. Instead of flirting vocally, you should try to get better results by building an attraction with the woman through your body language. There are many ways in which you could communicate your interest in her without even saying anything. Try to make some really good eye contact, as women find this to be very sexy, and it also shows that you are engaged in the conversation. It also comes off as mysterious if you use fewer words, and women are really into men that are mysterious. On that note, you should always try to end any conversation with a woman right when it seems to be going well. This adds to the notion that you are mysterious, and it leaves her wanting more.

3. Don't try to be smooth.

Often times, guys try way too hard to say everything right and be Mr. Cool. You don't have to do all this to make a woman see you as interesting. What you really need to do is talk to her in a way that gets her interested in finding out more about you. If you can accomplish this, you won't have to worry about how to get a girlfriend, because your phone will be ringing off the hook!




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