Thursday, July 8, 2010

Do You Know What Guys Want? See How You Can Use The Knowledge To Attract Guys

By Dr Joy Uzor

If you were to ask several women what guys want in women, chances are that you may get several answers that are totally different according to each woman's perception of men. They will tell from their experiences with men that some are attracted to physical beauty while some others go for the inner qualities of substance and respectability.

Women should know that physical attraction alone doesn't cut it when the race to attract men becomes hotter. In fact you may be surprised to see that it is not the most beautiful ladies that attract the most good looking guys!

However, there are still some standard features and attributes that almost every man will find attractive in a woman. So follow me and lets look at examples of what men are attracted to in women:

Clean, Stylish Appearance

Elegance in a woman is a depiction of all that she does to look good. It involves her cleanliness, her style, her dress sense and her gait. But of all these, her style is what makes her different from other women as this culminates in her gait, poise and how she uses her seductive gifts to attract men. Guys like that.

Self Confidence

If you don't have confidence in yourself, would you expect anyone to have confidence in you? I guess we all know the right answer here. Self assured, confident women are achievers and men know that. A woman with no self confidence may be conceived as a loser and this is not far from the truth. Confidence is that innate ability to handle situations and people with calm efficiency, and not with bungling mediocrity. In fact men know that they are not perfect and therefore need a woman who they can rely on. That's what being self assured means. Can you be that woman?

Decency

In discussing what men find attractive in a woman, we must not forget good manners. The unfortunate truth is that development and ultra-urban lifestyle has made good manners a difficult commodity to come by. But men admire women who still have good manners and are easily attracted to them.

Respectfulness

High level of integrity is a virtue that men respect in a woman. You need to be honest, upright and believable to be able to get attracted to men. Every man will appreciate a woman that is honorable and straightforward in her dealings with people since he can trust her judgement of situations, and of him, to be true

Caring Personality

No matter how chauvinistic a man may be, one thing he still craves is some care and kindness. Have you got a caring heart? If you answered yes, then you can bet that men will find you attractive.

You can see now that beauty alone is not what makes a woman attractive. But the whole combination of such factors as cleanliness, self respect, politeness, confidence, kindness and others are really what guys want in women.

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