Monday, April 16, 2012

Jealousy in Relationship

By Alex Shant


Jealousy is hard to avoid in every relationship. Jealousy comes in two forms. One form is harmful while the other form is legit. Jealousy delivered in disposition of attitude and/or feelings often cause harm, while zealous forms of jealousy enforce love. In cases where jealousy leads to harm, couples then have no choice but to part their ways.

Zealous is a watchfulness eye that looks out for the loved one. Zealous mates will work hard to make sure harmful objects or persons are not in the way of true love. Zealous persons will labor throughout the relationship to deliver and fulfill the necessary needs to their mate.On the other hand, jealousy acted out on hurt emotions and this only further the problem. If a man has a wandering eye and trust issues it is difficult to sustain the relationship between the two parties involved because lack of trust and doubts will destroy the relationship.

When a person loves another person, the mate will hold the up most attention to the partner. A man that loves his wife will not be looking at other women with sexual eye, or else with intentions of spicing up the relationship. Rather, the man will take pleasure and enjoyment with his mate's makeup, and find pleasure, satisfaction and happiness from the person. Women are not objects of sexuality, or entertainment, however women as well as men are objects, since both work with the other to breakdown relationships.

Trust is fundamental and very important in a relationship. If you do not learn how to trust your partner, better stay out of a relationship. yes , we may say we love them and we care for them but always remember that we are given the right to have freedom. If your partner loves you, trust his/her feelings towards. If a person is in love, it is difficult to look for another person because the center of attention of that person will be focused on the apple of his/her eye.

As much as you want to be with your partner 24/7, there are some things that we need to do in our life. Just like house chores, work and other miscellaneous activities. A good relationship knows how to balance the things that surrounds him/her. Make sure that you still have time for yourself. This will not only enhance your relationship as a couple but also the relationship that you have with yourself and to other people that matters to you. To make your relationship grow, both parties should also develop themselves individually.

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