Monday, March 29, 2010

Get Your Ex Girlfriend Back - How To Do It

By Carl Mcneill

Break ups can be pretty devastating. I said can be because if the break up is very much overdue then it could actually be a blessing.

But if you fell hard and deep for your ex that can be quite a problem. Most people would probably tell you to move on but it's always easier said than done. Sometimes, the only thing that can ever make you feel better is trying to get your ex girlfriend back.

Women are usually more forgiving when it comes to making up after a break up because they tend to focus on the relationship and everything that they have put into it.

Hence, doing a few subtle moves is sufficient enough to make her want to be with her again.

The first thing that you have to do is to reach out. Of course, there is that rule that no one should ever contact an ex after a break up lest it becomes perceived as pathetic.

And your ex may be observing this rule so even if she used to text you every 15 minutes, she'll probably refrain from sending you a single message on your IM.

You need to be the first one to text her or call her. She may be shy to text you or maybe she already has other suitors who are keeping her busy, she's entitled to that after all.

That may have made you score a few points when you were still together but that's just desperate now. Sending her brief emails or simple text messages will allow her to ease up on you and make her realize that you are still there.

Moving on to the next rule which includes seeing other women. Your ex will probably think that there's nothing wrong with you dating other women because technically, you are broken up. But if you want her to see you as a prospect and not as another ex, stay away from hooking up with other women. Good night kisses are fine but word will get to her that you spent the night at some girl's place.

Lastly, never forget to greet her during special occasions. Whether it be during the holidays or her birthday, make sure that you send a greeting card.

Sending her a simple birthday card is enough to touch any girl.

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