Got dumped? You are most likely feeling the pain and anguish of breaking up. Without a special plan to get her back you could be hitting a lot of mistakes. In addition, you are blowing your chances of ever getting her back.
If getting her back is your final goal then you should understand the rest of this article to find the low down on how to bring home the bacon and win her back.
The First Move
Before you start behaving the typical response of virtually all guys and thinking of crawling your way back, you have to think first. Many guys make the mistake of trying to get their ex back by bribing new things or showering with expensive gifts. The ugly truth is that you will just look like a weakling and end up looking wack. So if you are guilty of sending her flowers, perfumes or expensive, pricey gift, you need to stop immediately. Does this make sense to you? Probably not, but you should just relax for now and stop this type of behavior.
The Hardest Thing to Overcome Is
What you should be doing is cutting off all contact. Yes, you heard right. Stop all communication. No email, no text, no dropped calls. She dropped you for her reasons and you should respect that. You should just play it cool and not crowd her. This will make her regret the choice to breakup, if you are not always "around".
By giving her space, you can give yourself some time to think over the relationship as well. Remember, it takes two to tango and you played a part in the relationship, also. If you messed up and caused the relationship to go under then now is the time to consider why you did, what you did. Take a long deep look at yourself, and figure out what you need to change for the better.
Do you have no patience when it comes to your ex? Possibly, you have no patience when it comes to what you desire. You should consider probing your inner monsters and how you can put a lid on your toxic side. There are many ways to put your energies into something more positive.
Trust Issues
Do you have trust issues with your ex girlfriend?Maybe you had underlying feelings of mistrust of her and always wanted to know who and what she was doing. You need to look within and see if you are the jealous type and get insecure with any male figure in your ex's life. This can be a self-esteem issue that can only be fixed with increasing your own self-confidence.
On the other hand, were you the one who cheated? If you did, then you need to learn the reason behind it. Was there something lacking from the relationship that you didn't realize from your ex? This will help cure a few things and help you work through this breakup to remedy it or move onward.
What Doesn't Work
The truth of the fact is that the breakup is serious. You will have to do some soul searching despite who's as fault for the breakup. You will need to put some effort and work to fix this situation. Getting your ex back will take work. You can't solve this by buying gifts for your ex. Women are complicated and it is no simple fix. So take the time and learn the best methods to getting your ex back, no matter how bad the breakup was.
If getting her back is your final goal then you should understand the rest of this article to find the low down on how to bring home the bacon and win her back.
The First Move
Before you start behaving the typical response of virtually all guys and thinking of crawling your way back, you have to think first. Many guys make the mistake of trying to get their ex back by bribing new things or showering with expensive gifts. The ugly truth is that you will just look like a weakling and end up looking wack. So if you are guilty of sending her flowers, perfumes or expensive, pricey gift, you need to stop immediately. Does this make sense to you? Probably not, but you should just relax for now and stop this type of behavior.
The Hardest Thing to Overcome Is
What you should be doing is cutting off all contact. Yes, you heard right. Stop all communication. No email, no text, no dropped calls. She dropped you for her reasons and you should respect that. You should just play it cool and not crowd her. This will make her regret the choice to breakup, if you are not always "around".
By giving her space, you can give yourself some time to think over the relationship as well. Remember, it takes two to tango and you played a part in the relationship, also. If you messed up and caused the relationship to go under then now is the time to consider why you did, what you did. Take a long deep look at yourself, and figure out what you need to change for the better.
Do you have no patience when it comes to your ex? Possibly, you have no patience when it comes to what you desire. You should consider probing your inner monsters and how you can put a lid on your toxic side. There are many ways to put your energies into something more positive.
Trust Issues
Do you have trust issues with your ex girlfriend?Maybe you had underlying feelings of mistrust of her and always wanted to know who and what she was doing. You need to look within and see if you are the jealous type and get insecure with any male figure in your ex's life. This can be a self-esteem issue that can only be fixed with increasing your own self-confidence.
On the other hand, were you the one who cheated? If you did, then you need to learn the reason behind it. Was there something lacking from the relationship that you didn't realize from your ex? This will help cure a few things and help you work through this breakup to remedy it or move onward.
What Doesn't Work
The truth of the fact is that the breakup is serious. You will have to do some soul searching despite who's as fault for the breakup. You will need to put some effort and work to fix this situation. Getting your ex back will take work. You can't solve this by buying gifts for your ex. Women are complicated and it is no simple fix. So take the time and learn the best methods to getting your ex back, no matter how bad the breakup was.
About the Author:
Confused over your breakup? Daniel D. Dalton is a relationship expert dealing with breakup and broken relationships. Visit Win-Your-Ex.com for advice about wife leaving and help you answer call ex boyfriend?
