Friday, March 12, 2010

Tricks and Techniques in Understanding A Woman's Body Language

By George Andrews

It is a Friday night and you are a single guy, a Casanova who is out to conquer the world. You visit your favorite place to hang out and you find out that it seems as if you have lost your touch in interacting with real women in the dating world. Rather than grabbing a beer at your local hangout where you will see the same group of people, why don't you visit some place new?

Check out the latest clubs and bars. This is precisely where women go to hand out with their girl friends, meet men and simply have a good time. This is a good a place as any to discover the inner Lothario or Casanova in you - and practice your dating skills. If you feel like you have yet to master the art of reading the most subtle hints which will tell you if a woman is interested in you or not - then it is high time to harness your body language reading skills.

Since we are talking about harnessing your dating skills here, the one thing that you need to watch out for are the non-verbal clues as to whether she is interested in you or not. It's time to ditch those cheesy pick-up lines and look for ways to be really interesting and leave a lasting impression.

Once you have your eyes on your target, you can use your dating skills and practicing your charm. There is no worse scenario than having a woman walk out on you once you approach her - probably because of how you appear or what you said. This is precisely the reason why you need to learn about dating psychology 101 - which is all about understanding her body language.

Unleashing Your Casanova Techniques on Understanding her Body Language

If you would like to bring out the Casanova in you and learn how to actually understand a woman's language, there are non-verbal cues that you need to look for. More often than not, women use subtle cues to lure men into their 'trap' - which pretty much means that they are interested. To help you out, here is a quick list of some non-verbal cues that Casanovas like you need to watch out for:

She is leaning towards you when trying to make a point. Being the 'superior' communicators that they are, you will see that a woman is interested when she leans or moves towards you when trying to make a point. Let's say that introductions have already been dispensed with and you are already on the getting-to-know you stage. Even if it is not that loud in the bar and she leans over you during your conversation, that is definitely a good sign.

Prolonged eye contact - "I want to get to know you more." When a woman holds your gaze for more than five seconds, it means that she is interested with what you have to say. Whether you are looking for a sign that she'll say yes to your invitation of a date, this is precisely it.

Combined body language and subtle hints - "You can invite me for a nightcap." Some men are simply lucky in this department. If she flirts with you right back, initiates physical contact and reacts positively to your verbal and physical overtures, then that is a sign that she is thinking along the lines of tangling the sheets with you.

So what are you waiting for? If you feel that you have used enough of your Casanova charm and dating skills to get her to agree and go out with you or go home with you by the end of the night - there is absolutely no reason why you should say no to the invitation, is there? Just remember to pick up on her subtle hints, listen attentively to what her actions and words are trying to say - and you should be all set in mastering the art of reading a woman's body language. After that, you can either ask her to go out with you sometime, or expect her to say yes to your invitation for a nightcap.

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