Monday, September 27, 2010

How To Meet That Special Someone

By Paul Peterson

Possibilities are unless you are very fortunate you may go through many various relations before you find your special somebody. Finding your sole pal is like betting. In poker and blackjack you'll have to play many hands till you get a winning hand, and it's the same with relationships. During your life you may possibly meet some of the people who look like they might be the one, or that they're close, but still have the sensation that something else is missing. My advice is if you aren't satisfied, because something appears like it is missing, then it sometimes isn't right. Before I found my special somebody, I was in a relationship for more than 10 years, and I presumed everything was great, till I began to seriously consider getting wed.

Then I noticed we had so very little in common and in truth wanted such a large amount of different things out of life and one day we both realized there had been much about every one of us that we both wanted from somebody, although it was not us that we wanted. Then one day I made a decision I had enough of attempting to go to clubs and bars to meet folk. I was fed up to the back teeth of attempting to find somebody in the time it uses to finish a drink. It mostly appeared the women I'd meet were very bad for me, or they appeared great after speaking to them for five minutes but they appeared to have little interest in me. Then one day I had an idea, it wasn't an original idea but I made up my mind to use the web to try and find the best person for me.

So I went on to make a my space profile. On the current page I attempted to put the genuine me and not the funny guy trying hard to be enthralling that was seeking love at the bar. And as I would at the poker rooms I went all in, I poured my heart and sole into this.

I wrote what I wanted and jotted down who I actually think I am and not who I need to be, and I was rewarded by one e-mail replying to my site. It was fantastic, the reply I got was like a dream. Say you are sitting in a Vegas casino playing poker. You are down to your last few bucks, you go all in and you wind up being dealt a Royal Flush, and all of a sudden the sky is bluer, the grass is greener, and all of your concerns appear to just fade away. Initially things were a little clumsy for both of us. We made a decision to hold of on basically meeting till we were given to grasp one another first. We spent a month just chatting everyday on the web.

You can actually open up to somebody and show them the real you and not need to fret about refusal on the web, after all that you are merely a faceless spook, and if things do not work out you might be sitting next to her on the bus one day without ever knowing it. The secret to finding contentment is realizing you're going to bust more then you're going to get 21, but you need to keep trying, making an attempt to remember you just need to find the genuine thing once.

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