Saturday, December 19, 2009

Dating Tips For Men- Mistakes You Might Be Doing With Women

By Janine Hanson

As we probably all know, dating is really not easy. No one can guarantee that you can have success with women. And in actual fact, a lot of men think that women are very confusing that they often affix themselves to the first woman who pays them any attention.

To tell you frankly, there are a lot of dilemmas when it comes to the world of dating; it is not easy to handle it all. From the things men frequently do, and not from the women who do some actions. In this article, being matchmaking expert and base on my own observation, I want to pin down some of the most usual mistakes guys make with girls.

First Common Mistake: You don't have the guts to approach her

You can't get her attracted to you if you don't have the guts to make an approach. A lot of men just wait for the "right" time before they approach the woman they like. But in reality, there is no "right" moment to approach a woman. It does not really exist. If you see the woman you really admire, then do not be hesitant and have enough guts to greet her. Approach her but of course in a correct conduct. The most appalling thing that could happen is if she refuses. Well you have to face the rejection.

#2- You do not believe in your own self

In no doubt I know that you have heard this countless times, but it is really worth it to repeat it again.

A lot of women want a guy that has self confidence. If you do not have this attitude, then you are possibly wasting a precious chance to get her attention. For the reason that you do not have enough self confidence, you only show that you will just bore her and you won't get any good impression from her. An example for it is this: A guy who always seeks for approval from other people.

A man with self confidence has a pride but not conceited. And also, he has an impressive personality without any need to show off. By having this mind-set, you can easily get the attraction of women. You should be confident in any situation you will meet.

Third Common Mistake: Telling Lies

Pretending like you are somebody else is one of the fastest ways to obliterate a possible relationship with the woman you definitely adore. Guys are commonly judged based on what they say than actions. As a result, if you feel that you need to pretend to get their attention instantly, then you are putting yourself up in a crucial situation. Honest confident men don't need to be brag off and tell lies consistently. He knows that the truth will prevail for the better outcomes- more than establishing a fake personality.

Now, we are all to blame of telling those lies, petty lies. Though, if you often need to lie to the woman you adore just to impress her and for things to go the way you expect it, you are just dumping your precious moment. Afterward, it will chase you down.

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