Thursday, February 10, 2011

Sure Ways To Bring Your Ex Girlfriend Back

By John Shaw


Wooing the heart of your ex is not an effortless job. Thousands of guys still find their way back every day. So, prepare yourself to get the love of your life back. If you sit and wait there's not a lot of chance of seeing it through. You need to do something to get your life back on track!

Whatever you do, keep the faith. You need to be patient to collect the results. You need to nurture your relationship. Never ever dig and see if the seeds underground are actually trying to grow into the plant that you hope it to be. Sometimes all you need is trust what you are doing. You'll see the results eventually.

Your ex is thinking about you right now. Although it may sound like it's not the case, your ex may just be the "too proud to acknowledge it's true" type of girl. She is thinking about you just the way you are thinking about her. That's hard to accept, especially when she's acting tough. Even though your ex girlfriend may possibly play tough on you, it's not possible she just forgotten about you so fast. It takes time to forget about someone. Sometimes when people are hurt, they say many things they do not actually mean.

Here are some top techniques you can do to get your ex back:

1) Let her know you want her back You need to let it show in the event you want her back. Women like it if men show their love to them. Hiding your true feelings will not do you any good, as women generally speaking have a six sense. Actually they are really great at reading body language and they'll see right through you. They say love conquers all. No need to feel afraid. You should show that you still care for her. If you can think of any good or positive ideas, try it. There is nobody like her in this world. You made a mistake but now you really know what you want. You want her back into your loving arms.

2) Let her know she's the one for you At times, guys have a real problem expressing their love. They make it sound like they don't care when actually quite the opposite is accurate. Often times they put up a wall either because of their ego or fear. Some guys are just shy. Being shy is really not a lady killer.

3) You have a history with your ex. Use it to your advantage Although you and your ex are no longer together, just like any other relationship, you must have had some good memories together. Remind her those good memories exist. It would be very smart of you to use the memories for your benefit.

4) When you meet your ex, look good and splash on some cologne or perfume You want to remind her why she fell for you in the first place. Dress sexy and smell good. Nobody thinks sexually about smelly people, right?

5) Remind her you once were best friends before lovers Be there for her, just like her best friend would. It's about the connection that establishes. It's about trust. Pay attention to every single word she speaks. Don't think about anything else. It's important. Maintain your focus. Just be there when he or she needs you. That is what friends are for.

6) You must look like you know what you're doing Being confident is a powerful aphrodisiac. Use it well. You must practice until the confidence is real.

Here are some ways to relax before you start winning your ex back:

1) Visit a day spa There's no better place to relax than the day spa. Trust me, I know. Why not unwind here? Many guys have reported day spas being the best place to unwind when stressed out.

Don't think of your problems no more. Spend couple of days at the spa.

2) Hit the gym Exercise gives you endorphins which make you feel great. Make a habit of it.

3) Eat well As you try to get into your best physical and emotional shape ever, it's important to monitor what you eat. That's actually another way of saying good buy junk food.

What you need to know is that women love being pampered and loved. Just pamper and love your ex.

Remind your ex that you really are that perfect mate that she is looking for. A dirty trick might even be getting some other girl to pay you attention while you are meeting with her. This will remind her that you have other options. Just make it look like you have a lot of fans and fun. She might rethink the past and actually ask you to get back with you. You need to act natural and be the same guy she fell for in the first place.




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