Wednesday, January 19, 2011

Become The Alpha Male

By Damian Jackson


It's within your interest to become the alpha male in your group as you be more prone to get the best women who hang around you as everyone tends to look up to the alpha male. In addition when you become the alpha male you more liable to have improved career prospects because employers value their leadership capabilities.

To learn to become the alpha male have a look at the suggestions beneath.

1. Lead! This is the sole biggest tip I can provide you! When you think about it, leading is just an additional name for organising. Instead of letting other people in your group do all the leg work in arranging your nights out at the local bars or days out to theme parks, why not organize it yourself? This puts you in control and your friends will on impulse look to you. It's as easy as that! Try employing words like "lets" do this instead of "would you like" to do this.

2. Don't let anything effect you in a negative way. You need to try and stay calm and collected at all times, thus simply sit back and relax!

3. Talk slowly, calmly and with passion. When you speak try alternating your voice pitch and tonality so that you do not sound too mono-tone. By speaking slowly you'll come across as being more positive and self-assured. This will too make it easier for you to cut out the "ums" and "ers".

4. Look people in the eyes when you are talking to them. This might sound evident to you, but pay notice to how many people don't stare you in the eyes when they speak to you. This give you an edge!

5. Your actions need to be slow and collected. Do not make any unexpected or jerky actions that will show you up as being nervous or uncomfortable.




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