Men that aren't successful with women frequently try to change women. In fact, they try to change people generally. Women have hurt some men and they want revenge. Well, here is the underlying problem. Men take things too personally. Men who aren't successful with women think that the world is out to get them.
The problem are not women or the world, the problem is you. How come women don't hurt guys that are considered players? How come women don't hurt confident men? I am not saying that they never ever hurt them, I am saying that they hurt them on a much lower scale than other men, especially shy men.
Don't think that you're so important in the world. You're just one human, among almost seven billion. You are not significant to the world. People don't actually care that much about you. People are too busy caring about themselves. It's all in your head. You ego doesn't want to admit how insignificant it is. I remember being very bad with women. I used to be very lonely and very bitter. I though that God most of cursed me to make me so unsuccessful with women. I really never understood how I actually sabotaged myself. Now I see this in other men. I see them sabotaging their success.
You don't need to change either women or the world. You only need to change yourself. It won't be easy thought. Only after were you realize what you were doing wrong.
The road to happiness is paved with many bad points. You need to stick through this. The tough times will change you. This journey is not quick. It will last years usually. You will always evolve to a higher level. You must never surrender. That is definitely the biggest mistake you can make.
The problem are not women or the world, the problem is you. How come women don't hurt guys that are considered players? How come women don't hurt confident men? I am not saying that they never ever hurt them, I am saying that they hurt them on a much lower scale than other men, especially shy men.
Don't think that you're so important in the world. You're just one human, among almost seven billion. You are not significant to the world. People don't actually care that much about you. People are too busy caring about themselves. It's all in your head. You ego doesn't want to admit how insignificant it is. I remember being very bad with women. I used to be very lonely and very bitter. I though that God most of cursed me to make me so unsuccessful with women. I really never understood how I actually sabotaged myself. Now I see this in other men. I see them sabotaging their success.
You don't need to change either women or the world. You only need to change yourself. It won't be easy thought. Only after were you realize what you were doing wrong.
The road to happiness is paved with many bad points. You need to stick through this. The tough times will change you. This journey is not quick. It will last years usually. You will always evolve to a higher level. You must never surrender. That is definitely the biggest mistake you can make.
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