Saturday, October 23, 2010

5 Dangerous Dating Sins

By James A. Tomlinson

After reading this article, don't say that you were not warned, because there is nothing like one of these 7 dating sins that may end a new relationship before it has even begun.

1. Having sex too early

There is no "right" or "wrong" time to have sex for the first time with your new date, but it is quite certain that if you're moving things forward to fast and not taking time to let him experience all the other things you also are, then you are directly on the way over in the category "one-night stand". A man would really like to see what you contain and still find time to appreciate it. So do not be afraid to wait, it's an absolute retired myth that you must have sex on the third date - show him what you stand for and let him hanker after it.

2. Save some for later dates

It is not necessary to overwhelm your new date with all the personal information you have saved up throughout your life. Your first date is not a job interview, nor those which follow. Let it all float on, and throw your personal stuff into the conversation, a little here and there where it fits into the context.

3. Texting too much

Men like to be hunters and that is not going to change anytime soon. With so many ways of communicating, it's easy to send messages all the time, but it's not a good idea. Let the man be the man and come for you, not the other way around.

4. Snooping and spying

Although it can be super tempting to skim through his posts by mail, Facebook or phone, it's a really bad idea. Show your date the trust that you'd like him to have to you - they are a much better ways to start a new relationship.

5. Simulated orgasms

This is a big no! Don't do it! Ever! In the end you are not deceiving anyone but yourself. How is he supposed to know how to pleasure for real if you fake orgasms? Try instead to suggest, gently, things that he can do that turns you on.

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