Eyes powerful body language and can communicate our thoughts and feelings without much effort.
There is a saying that eyes mirror the soul, and it could not be more true when it comes to flirting. Eyes way to meet a man from across the room without the need for speech.
A woman can tell if a person is confident and assured of his eyes. It can also tell if he's weak and self-doubt.
Look for eye contact with the woman you want to flirt with. Find her eye and hold it. Try to get her to look away. If it is one to grab your mind, make sure you do not look away immediately. Most people will break your eyes, immediately, if someone looks at them. Nothing does not mean you're weak more than the violation of gaze. The woman will be able to say that you have no dignity.
There is a fine line between looking at someone and taking their eye. Look lazy to look in the general direction. Sight is a laser focus on a specific point. Look, do not look. Keep eye contact in a playful manner, not a creepy.
Do you want to send the message that you are confident that its appearance has no power over you and that you are in control. You do not desperately need it, you'll be the one who chooses whether something will happen. It is at your whim, because you have to play by your rules. All this is to say, if you force it to prevent his views. This shows you want it, but not going to give it.
Eye contact from across the room is a prelude to other kinds of flirting. Flirting should grow otherwise it becomes tedious and boring. You can not look at each other for several hours through the bar. In the end, you have to stand up and talk to her.
The fact that they made eye contact is to break the ice to some extent. So when you go and talk to her you're not just a stranger, but someone who already has a relationship with her.
It will feel like she knows you are to some extent. This is something that you can use away. Eye contact is not in itself enough to get you somewhere, but it is a launching pad.
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Thursday, September 8, 2011
The Easy Way to Stop the Agonizing Pain of Betrayal After Your Husband's Affair
If your man cheated on you, I'm sincerely sorry to hear that. I know only too well how hurtful it can be to have your spouse cheat on you. But frequently the toughest thing is dealing with the haunting images that appear to continually play through your mind throughout the day and cause you to feel horrible.
What can you do to stop this damaging thought process and get back in control over your own mind?
Well, I'd like to share with you something that is surprisingly easy, but many individuals do not realize, and that's what is accountable for all negative feelings.
If you feel a negative feeling (and I do mean any negative feeling), it is actually because you are concentrating your mind on what you do not want.
You see, when you concentrate your mind on what you do not want, you are imagining what you don't want and creating images of it in your mind's eye. This just reaffirms those haunting pictures of your husband with another woman, for instance.
Even if you are trying to avoid or push away the negative feelings, you're still focusing on the negative outcomes (and therefore only adding fuel to the fire). As an example, if you decide that you need to avoid feeling hurt again, your brain must first imagine what it is like to be hurt so that you can avoid it.
This is how concentrating on what you do not want creates negative emotions.
If you want to stop this dangerous cycle and end the agonising emotions and betrayal, you want to instead change your focus to what you do want.
Instead of avoiding agony and suffering, you almost certainly desire something like happiness, or a loving relationship. Start to ask what it'd be like to feel cheerful or to feel loved.
This will cause your mind to start imagining all the details of what happiness and love would be like in your life.
This is how you take your focus off of the negative and put it on the positive.
First, you recognize that you are focusing on what you do not want.
Then you stop and ask yourself, "Okay, if this is what I don't desire, what do I want?"
Then you start to focus on what you do want.
This is going to be challenging at first, since the negative emotions you are experiencing have a sort of inertial of their own. But just like exercising a muscle, this can become easier with some practice and you can start to end the haunting emotions and troubling thoughts that rush through your thoughts after your spouse's affair.
You can begin to notice whether or not you are focusing on what you want or what you do not want, and when you happen to notice your mind on something you do not want, you can begin to intentionally change it to something that you do desire. With continued practice, you can start to move your life in a positive direction that may help to build a foundation for contentment and love in the future.
What can you do to stop this damaging thought process and get back in control over your own mind?
Well, I'd like to share with you something that is surprisingly easy, but many individuals do not realize, and that's what is accountable for all negative feelings.
If you feel a negative feeling (and I do mean any negative feeling), it is actually because you are concentrating your mind on what you do not want.
You see, when you concentrate your mind on what you do not want, you are imagining what you don't want and creating images of it in your mind's eye. This just reaffirms those haunting pictures of your husband with another woman, for instance.
Even if you are trying to avoid or push away the negative feelings, you're still focusing on the negative outcomes (and therefore only adding fuel to the fire). As an example, if you decide that you need to avoid feeling hurt again, your brain must first imagine what it is like to be hurt so that you can avoid it.
This is how concentrating on what you do not want creates negative emotions.
If you want to stop this dangerous cycle and end the agonising emotions and betrayal, you want to instead change your focus to what you do want.
Instead of avoiding agony and suffering, you almost certainly desire something like happiness, or a loving relationship. Start to ask what it'd be like to feel cheerful or to feel loved.
This will cause your mind to start imagining all the details of what happiness and love would be like in your life.
This is how you take your focus off of the negative and put it on the positive.
First, you recognize that you are focusing on what you do not want.
Then you stop and ask yourself, "Okay, if this is what I don't desire, what do I want?"
Then you start to focus on what you do want.
This is going to be challenging at first, since the negative emotions you are experiencing have a sort of inertial of their own. But just like exercising a muscle, this can become easier with some practice and you can start to end the haunting emotions and troubling thoughts that rush through your thoughts after your spouse's affair.
You can begin to notice whether or not you are focusing on what you want or what you do not want, and when you happen to notice your mind on something you do not want, you can begin to intentionally change it to something that you do desire. With continued practice, you can start to move your life in a positive direction that may help to build a foundation for contentment and love in the future.
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If you'd like to learn more about handling infidelity, please check out my guide to getting over an affair.
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