Tuesday, July 26, 2011

How To Get Back An Ex Boyfriend

By David Day


If you are looking to get back your ex boyfriend then this is something that is well within your power if you understand the difference between the sexes. You should make good use of the femininity you've been blessed with and this will tempt his natural male responses. People may change as time progresses but the rules remain pretty unchanged

It is part of the age old game of seduction and requires you to respond intelligently to the situation so that things work out for you. In doing this you will be sure to spark the reunion that you crave and will get things back on track. To begin with you may need to be patient as you can't expect results right away. It often takes time for things to take shape in matters of this kind.

Figure out the difficult stuff first before acting in a way that will renew his interest. This involves analyzing what happened that led him to being an ex boyfriend. Whatever it was give it the amount of though it deserves and learn from mistakes that were made.

Being naturally possessive, boys like the idea of having a girl all to themselves. Just by knowing this fact you can create the circumstances in which you can utilize this knowledge and work it to your favor. You can do this by increasing the amount you socialize with the opposite sex.

If he speaks to you in any capacity during this time you must appear distant. You don't have to be mean or spiteful as this sends out the wrong message but just project an air of detachment. That will lead him to think that in some way you are off limits and that will not make him feel good and will cause a little damage to his ego.

It does not matter how strong your feeling are for him at any stage - you have to keep these to yourself and remain cool and collected at all points. If you have feelings then express them in the quiet time you have for yourself. Don't be tempted to discuss things online either as this may be read by others and will threaten the success of any strategy you have in place.

He will be drawn to you at this point and this is where you need to be willing to take a step back. When communicating with him do so as a friend. Make him work to impress you. If he feels that he can only be a friend with you then this will naturally annoy him as he will remember when you were more than that. During this time you can try some very gentle flirting and this will establish some form of closeness.

If the topic of getting things back on track as time passes then agree that you will take time to consider it then pretend to take time. This gives him the impression that you are really thinking things over and when you come back with good news he will be relieved and enthusiastic about moving things forward.




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