Years of the Art of Pickup This article about picking up women is not just for seasoned veterans so listen up. I can't seem to take two steps before someone confronts me with questions about being a player. It's kind of funny, you'd never think that pick up was that popular, but ever since I won the Rising Star award at the Player's National Conference, my mailbox has been absolutely slammed with people wanting to learn more. Some folks consider me somewhat of a legend in this area but I don't let my ego get the best of me.People ask me how I got my start and how I got to where I am today, so I always refer them to The Game. If you have not thumbed through each page of The Game,
then you need to wait longer before you get women's numbers. Fortunately, its a lot easier today for those that want to get started than it was in my day. Back in my day you had to go to the front door and ask the girl's father for permission before you could even take a crack at it. Today, all you have to do is hop online and all of the information you could ever dream of about seducing women is available at your finger tips. While there are some great pick up artists today, I feel like the golden age of our craft has subsided. Information overload is a real threat for you newbies. You are always looking for an easy or fast way to attain greatness. The following are the three questions that seem to come up every time: "-How much should I spend on cologn?
-What is the best book about pick up lines?
-What if I mess up when I'm just learning to get numbers?
There's a lot more where that came from. Any pick up artist worth his salt will tell you that mastering getting numbers is all about being first to the finish line but it is not about being first out of the gate. You must know how to crawl before you walk, and you have to know how to walk before you can run. I remember trying to get dates my first time like it was yesterday and it was not a pretty site. My friends who got me into it in the first place wished they never had because I was constantly asking for advice. My development came to a standstill early on but I had a eureka moment that changed everything for me when I began to avoid charismaarts.com and neilstrauss.com and instead started focusing on mysterymethod.com which was really the key to my success. I started reading more and more about how to use a pick up line, stopped focusing on the glitz and glamour and instead turned my attention to making on women with my God given tools and talents.
The improvement was so drastic and sudden that my insecurities vanished and never returned. It's all about confidence and believing in yourself. Sometimes I am asked if you need to have a special gift to pick up women or if you can just pick up a book and learn about seducing chicks. I always say that knowledge is only 20% of the uphill battle. What's left, the 80 is merely a matter of sweat, tears, and anguish. Your clients need to know what kind of commitment this is and follow through with it. The world's best player is not the guy or girl who never makes mistakes. They probably repeated your mistakes more often than you have but the difference is that if they fail to get a girl's number or even get slapped they learn. That's what separates the virtuoso from the amateur player.
then you need to wait longer before you get women's numbers. Fortunately, its a lot easier today for those that want to get started than it was in my day. Back in my day you had to go to the front door and ask the girl's father for permission before you could even take a crack at it. Today, all you have to do is hop online and all of the information you could ever dream of about seducing women is available at your finger tips. While there are some great pick up artists today, I feel like the golden age of our craft has subsided. Information overload is a real threat for you newbies. You are always looking for an easy or fast way to attain greatness. The following are the three questions that seem to come up every time: "-How much should I spend on cologn?
-What is the best book about pick up lines?
-What if I mess up when I'm just learning to get numbers?
There's a lot more where that came from. Any pick up artist worth his salt will tell you that mastering getting numbers is all about being first to the finish line but it is not about being first out of the gate. You must know how to crawl before you walk, and you have to know how to walk before you can run. I remember trying to get dates my first time like it was yesterday and it was not a pretty site. My friends who got me into it in the first place wished they never had because I was constantly asking for advice. My development came to a standstill early on but I had a eureka moment that changed everything for me when I began to avoid charismaarts.com and neilstrauss.com and instead started focusing on mysterymethod.com which was really the key to my success. I started reading more and more about how to use a pick up line, stopped focusing on the glitz and glamour and instead turned my attention to making on women with my God given tools and talents.
The improvement was so drastic and sudden that my insecurities vanished and never returned. It's all about confidence and believing in yourself. Sometimes I am asked if you need to have a special gift to pick up women or if you can just pick up a book and learn about seducing chicks. I always say that knowledge is only 20% of the uphill battle. What's left, the 80 is merely a matter of sweat, tears, and anguish. Your clients need to know what kind of commitment this is and follow through with it. The world's best player is not the guy or girl who never makes mistakes. They probably repeated your mistakes more often than you have but the difference is that if they fail to get a girl's number or even get slapped they learn. That's what separates the virtuoso from the amateur player.
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