Friday, February 18, 2011

Can Any Guy Get Good At Picking Up Women?

By Alex Decoto


Many men who have decided to become successful with women aren't even aware what is waiting for them. I will clear up some points.

Well, ever since I can remember myself as a kid, I can remember that I was very scared of women. I wasn't scared in the sense that they were going to hurt me. I was extremely shy. Most of my life was market by the inability to interact with the opposite sex. Because of this, I didn't have almost any experience with women up until a few years ago. What happened, you ask? Well, I finally decided that enough was enough. It was the best point in my life. It took some time to make that decision, since I didn't know that transformation with women was even possible.

It started with me learning some theory that explained the whole psychology of becoming successful with women. My mistake was that I was reading too much and doing too little. I was doing too little because deep inside, I was too frightened to socialize with women, and reading books at home was much easier.

What do you need to become better with women? Well, you need experience, more experience. Don't do as I did. Don't spend months or years learning theory about how to become better with women. You need to get out there and do something. Start approaching women, start conversations with them in any way possible. It doesn't matter what the result will be. What matters is that you actually do it. The more you postpone this action, the longer it will take you to get out there and do something. I was stuck for months learning theory only. Eventually, I had to get in the field. I only regret that I didn't do it faster.

Just start any action with women that you can. That's it.




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