Thursday, January 7, 2010

Tips For Men To Insure They Snag The Woman Every Time.

By Louise Servage

When it concerns dating there are numerous options open to you that will help in making a strong impression in the minds of the opposite sex. When it concerns men and dating there are certainly quite a few simple methods worth trying out and to know more about these methods only requires that they take the help of some useful dating tips for men.

Does Appearance Matter?

Men's appearance is the one of the most important dating tips you could know. If you look presentable and well groomed you will stand a much better chance with hitting it off with the opposite sex.

The next simple dating tip for men relates to the way that you behave and conduct yourself with members of the opposite sex. This means that people that show chivalry and who are always courteous will always be noticed by the fairer sex while those men that are rude and uncouth and uncultured will be rejected by women. This means that you must follow this dating tip for men which say that you must always behave like a gentleman.

With the third dating tip, it actually applies to both females and males, remember to always be on time. Keeping a woman waiting for you is the worst thing that you can do as it shows a lack of consideration and so even if you are going to be late you must call your date and let her know that you won't be on time and you should also give a reason for the delay.

Listening skills are very important, this will help in obtaining a friendship and it will also show your date that you are considerate of them. This will also help you to get to know your date better and endear you to her.

Paying compliments to your date is one of the best dating tips to follow, just be sure they are sincere compliments.

with dating older men there are several tips to explore. No two women are the same, older woman like the thought of dating younger men, this brings excitement and a sense of adventure. This will bring a deeper development in the relationship with a younger man.

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Wednesday, January 6, 2010

The Secret Of Happiness Is Bonding

By Masami Sato

Why do we live? What are we here for? Day after day we asked these questions of the purpose and meaning of our lives. And most of us constantly look for the answer. How can we achieve happiness? This is yet another question urging us to look for its answer every day. What if the answer to those questions is simple? What if it is all simply about ONE thing? Connection. The secret of happiness is explained thoroughly in the clear and refreshing voice of Masami Sato in this excerpt of her book, ONE.

What are we searching for?

There are a host of things that we do in our lives.

But have we ever thought about why we do what we do? What are we really looking for?

The world now is full of billions of us coming from different races, countries, religions and beliefs all doing different things. We all look different and act quite differently. We have different interest and attitude from others. We communicate differently often using different languages. We have different desire and feelings.

However, if we were to say there is just ONE thing we are ALL looking for, what would it be?

While I travelled all over the world, I did ask people one simple question, "What would you like to achieve in your life? What do you really want?"

At first, it seemed everyone was looking for different things as they randomly said, "Good job", "My own house", "A nice partner", "A loving family", "A soul mate", "More money", "Wealth". "Freedom", "Peace of mind", "A life purpose" There were many more answers.

I did notice that some of these requirements were of a more earthly nature while others were of a permanent nature. Earthly desires are those that we want because we do not yet have it, or think that we do not yet have it. As against this, permanent desires are not about getting things we do not have. It is about a 'feeling' that we yearn for, so that it does not come to an end, whatever we get or accomplish at every moment or our lives.

If we take off the temporal desires from the list and look only at the permanent desires, it is clear that all we want is to continue experiencing positive feelings like exhilaration, enjoyment, encouragement, motivation, kindness, love, happiness etc. - in another way, we want to remain happy.

Happiness

Happiness is one state of emotion that we are all longing to be in. We all may define it differently. We may value it differently. We may experience it at different levels of intensity. But we surely have something in common when happiness comes to us. And when we discover this secret about happiness, we hold the power to be happier, and to make others around us experience the same feeling too.

This life, that we live, is a mystery. All of us like it in our own different ways. We may also dislike it in different ways. We may wonder about it. We may cherish it. Or we may just accept it in an offhand manner. But what is the ultimate purpose of this life? What if the mystery of our existence is at hand? What if its revelation actually brings us happiness and fulfilment when we come face to face with it?

What if the essence of the aim of our lives, and its joys, is as simple as this:

It is all about relationship.

Bonding is everything

Everything is about connecting. Everything is part of everything else. If we look at our own life, it says it all. Then we will start to see the real purpose of our life.

Why do we do something, ANYTHING in life as human beings?

It is simply because we want to connect more and more. We make friends to feel connected. We get married to connect with someone more deeply and more permanently. We create a family to feel even more connected. We go out to meet more people to connect with, not only to get practical benefits from those connections, but also to feel more connected to the world.

We buy good clothes or go to a hairdressing saloon for a better relationship with our aesthetical sense and to our own physical appearance. We eat all types of food to feel more connected to the sense of taste and flavour. We eat out to feel the relationship to the people we dine with. We get mobile phones and computers to weave relationships with others and the world. We read magazines and newspapers to remain in touch with whatever is going on and what others are doing and experiencing. We educate ourselves to keep in touch with what others know and value.

Every thing that we do is to satisfy the need of keeping alive relationships. It is our relationship to our own body that makes it imperative that we eat and sleep. Because of our relationship to our senses, we are asked to do things to satisfy the demands that body makes. If we ignore the demands that body makes, we have to bear the resultant aches and distress. And above our mundane needs, we yearn for another relationship - a relationship to our very existence - a relationship to our purpose. And without that connection, it is vacant. Just like the blankness so many of us feel when we have no relationship even to ourselves. That is just not the way our lives are supposed to be lived.

Relationship is powerful, and yet it's fragile and tender..

When the bonds in a relationship lose strength, we go in for a separation, divorce, disagreements, judgement, and bitterness. It never feels good to lose the bonding. Still, it possible to be in love with someone today, and totally disconnected and bitter towards him tomorrow. And this change of feelings can happen just by the flicker of an eyelid. And the eyes might be yours or theirs!

When the relationship is not there.

When the bonds are not there, we perceive problems all over. We start seeing disparities and obstacles. We begin passing judgement on others and reproaching them. We blow up, focus on and strengthen those things that we perceive as problems. When that happens, we might even turn all that negativity inwards and cause ourselves hurt and injury. We cannot feel completely happy when we have severed the bonds with even just one thing.

Bonding: the Secret to Happiness

What about if we looked at the whole concept in reverse? When we do that we discover this simple truth: we cannot feel unhappy when we are feeling totally connected. It's impossible!

Try to feel grouchy when we have a good relationship with the people around us and smiling and sharing things completely. Even when we have 'problems' in life, we can still smile together and feel delighted when we are bound together in a good relationship. At the same time, it is hard to be happy if we do not have that edifying relationship.

Relationship: Our Life .

Connection is the core of everything. That's what life is. Connection.

Everything is a unified whole of smaller units. Everything combines together to form a bigger unit; the way our bodies are a fusion of smaller entities like atoms, molecules, cells and organs.

Our acts and options also is an expression of the need for a relationship. We are meant to continuously find out ways to relate to each other and to a higher objective.

Relationship and Religion

Some of us opt to be part of various religions to feel better bonded. This bonding that they seek could be to God. It may be to the people with the same convictions. When we share a similar credence, there is a greater feeling of being bound to the people in that group. More awarding and handing over takes place among people who are feeling strong bonds with each other.

Bonding and Business

Many people begin an enterprise to feel better bonded to themselves by being in control of their fate. But often in the entrepreneurial world, we end up being more and more segregated especially when we start viewing other ventures as contenders, staff as instruments and customers as a money flow. But the basic point of why we got into the venture was to feel the power of that bonding. So, why do we need to fashion that disconnection at all? May be in the perfect world, all business ventures worked differently, but hand in hand.

Bonding and Wars

Some of us even raise arguments or wars to feel some sense of 'triumph' or what is a heightened sense of safety and importance. But strangely, this ricochets. The minute we 'win' the fight, we are in fact weakening the relationship. We now require more sureness to defend ourselves from being assaulted by others. We thus end up being more unsure and frightened. We cannot take it lightly as it really happens to almost all of us in one form or another.

It may be the differences of opinion we have with people around us. It may be the wrong conclusions we reach at when we decide another person is wrong. When we want to be the only person to triumph, it will not be a victory in the true sense of the word - there would be no bonding. We can only rejoice when we succeed in unison. Then we feel the strong bond.

Despite the varied ways in which our needs are expressed, everything we do is to satisfy the yearning we have to feel and have a strong relationship.

The real sense of connection comes only through our heart. We can connect with anybody when we are truly caring for them and feeling connected with them. If we know this, creating the desired state is actually simple, easy and fun. Then we would naturally experience more happiness and joy.

Life is like a play. We act things and feel things in a play but actually, the aim of the play is to derive pleasure out of it. It is not about acting out things, doing things. When the curtain falls finally, the winners are the ones who have experienced joy by acting. Not the ones who received more applause in the end. The effects and upshots of a play in which we acted do not affect our real life. But if we lost all our life to act in a play just because we wanted to be the best actor there, would it make us the best actor of the play?

It is easy to make out this in the background of competing in sports, but we often do not realize it in the sports and games of real life. We forget so fast that life is also a form of sports.

We have no idea when this game began and when it would be over, all that we know is that it commenced in the past and that it will be over one day. When finally the umpire blows the whistle to stop the game, we can simply say, "Wow, it was a lot of fun. Let us play once again!"

In this play called life, the aim of the play is to 'bond.' We can keep bonding until we all merge to become one. It is the one way to perpetually feel bonded to our rationale - the feeling of joy and pleasure. We cannot afford to have the bonds to anything weakened or reject and decide even one thing if we are to reach the state of complete bonding.

Life is as simple as that. There is just ONE secret.

And the secret is to establish a relationship.

To become ONE.

To relish.

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Tuesday, January 5, 2010

Free Online Dating Solves The Problem Of Loneliness

By Girish Jaju

You can discover your life partner through free online dating. You find friends when you are alone and feeling the acute suffering of loneliness. It is even more difficult in critical times of your life. You should not let the idea of loneliness crawl into your mind when you are amidst a tough situation. Find out a compatible soul mate through online dating and escape from the pangs of bitter life of isolation.

You will feel happy when you get in touch with the correct type of individual that you were looking for. You should be able to know thyself first for the friend that you wish to come in your life. Select from a variety of individuals who seem to be close enough to be the right kind in your estimate. Free online dating solves the crisis of isolated individuals who can take the advantage of free dating to end their seclusion.

You are lonely but surely there comes a time in your life when you feel the urge to speak to someone and feel the need of company. This encourages you to find out a companion and sometimes, the individual turns out to be your life partner. When feeling lonely, just take the benefit of Internet for free dating sites, where you find a wide range of profiles.

It is always preferable to confirm your own intentions and make replies to the queries from friends that you have created through online dating. When you mark aspects of common interest in a particular individual, you can begin communicating to know the person better.

Make yourself comfortable with the new friendship achieved through free online dating. You have to decide whether to stretch the friendship to the culminating point or not. Listen to the advice of your inner self. If you feel comfortable and wish the company of the particular profile and wish to make the person your life partner, you are welcome to do so.

If you dream of a full family soon and see the possibility of such endured friendship program, do go positively for the "dreams come true" thought. Free online dating allows you the luxury of forgetting your loneliness and access to a new era of thriving life with cherished company of partners to lead a fresh life.

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Monday, January 4, 2010

California Divorce Records Accessing Online Archive

By Dorothy Jackman

Marriage is the end result of two people expressing compassionate love for one another. But, the sad thing is that not all marriages last forever, some would go separate ways in the future for whatever reason. A law has been enacted to legalize the termination of marriage contract through what is called divorce. Many people are after to such important public divorce records to provide useful information for everyone.

Anyone who has an upright intention to obtain such pertinent files is permitted by law to search and get hold of the details regarding somebody's divorce background. The California divorce records are normally updated at the federal, state and local government offices. Government agencies have some formal procedures being followed in dealing with the records. Thus, it takes some time to process anyone's request before it is completed.

Back in the old days, individuals had no other choice but to be patient in waiting for their request to be finished. But today, divorce reports are within our reach via the modern computer and the Internet. In California, people are given the chance to conduct a free pre-trial search. If you like the services, then that's the time you can sign up to a particular site for the unlimited access to divorce documents. The fee is considerably worth paying.

There are already some credible online information providers these days that are useful in the effort of gathering relevant details about the divorce records of a certain individual. With the accessibility of these files over the Internet, people no longer have to wait for a long time unlike those being done at the offices. This is completely more convenient and economical than searching such vital documents manually.

People can also get hold of the said reports from the divorce court records. You just need to follow certain guidelines set in the process of requesting them. The courthouse is the place where the original records were compiled, filed and uploaded. The government used to be just the only source of these pertinent public documents.

It is definitely a big help for everyone to finally cut the long process short with the aid of modern computerization and the Internet. The online divorce records search has indeed made the task very quick and straightforward to perform without any hassle. The financial obligation in return for the services is perfectly worth it because you will definitely get what you need. It really saves a lot of your money and time.

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Sunday, January 3, 2010

Engagement Proposal Ideas - 7 Romantic Ideas

By Damian Jackson

Before i give you a few engagement proposal ideas, I need to suggest that you don't simply copy an idea word for word!

Any idea you use, you need to take some of your shared experiences in order to make the proposal personal to the two of you!

I hope these engagement proposal ideas give you some inspiration:

1. Mail her a photo of you on one knee with a special love poem. Wait outside her house for the post to arrive and when you hear her scream, knock on the door and propose in person.

2. Say that you're going to be away on business during a special anniversary. Go 1 week without seeing her then surprise her with a knock on the door on your anniversary. Propose there and then!

3. Go on a sun set hot-air balloon ride over the mountains. Over champagne and under the stars, you can propose. Make sure you take a jigsaw puzzle for the balloon operator, or it could get awkward!

4. Go building sand castles, or digging for shells on the beach. You can "stumble" upon an old bottle with a love poem inside. Read her the poem, it will become clear it is about her and then propose.

5. You could go for a nice meal and ask her to marry you. When she says "yes" you can start the wedding immediately! Make sure you plan it all out and that you're certain she'll say yes!

6. Send her 3 roses; one representing the past, present and the future. Have the ring attached to the future.

7. Go for a day at the spa followed by a professional photo shoot! While you're getting the photos, get down on one knee and propose. You will have the moment forever! Afterwards, go for an amazing meal followed by a 5 star hotel.

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Saturday, January 2, 2010

The #1 Thing That Women Find Irresistible

By Bruce Elwin

When you first meet a woman your goal is simple. You want to rise above all of the other men she meets every day. Rather than appear boring or average, you want to stand out in a memorable way. Most guys do it wrong by trying to wear something over-the-top or try to talk about strange subjects they think women would be intrigued by. This usually backfires on him.

Separating yourself from the average guy is more subtle then wearing a feather boa when you go out. That's old school pickup artist tricks and it's over. There are a lot of things I think you need to focus on when you first meet a woman but here is what I think is one of the biggest personality traits to express to a woman you just met:

1. Have a passion you are pursuing

I truly believe a passion that you are working towards is much more attractive to women than your wallet, your looks or anything else. Of course some women care about your wallet but they are not the women you want to be focusing on anyway. Ambition is the key ingredient here. Having a true purpose in this life is very attractive. Women actually want you to have something more important than them in your life. A man who chooses a woman over his purpose or mission is not respected by any woman.

Be able to talk about these things openly and with enthusiasm. You should never be ashamed for something you are passionate about, regardless of how much you think a woman won't dig it. Talk as if you assume everyone around you is as interested in it as you are. Die hard convictions in people are very hard to not respect. If you make excuses for your interests then that shows her you are value-seeking. Remember Value-Seeking is an attraction destroyer. Somewhere within the reason you are passionate about something is exactly what is going to bring a sexy, amazing woman into your life. Think about it.

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Friday, January 1, 2010

I Need Body Language Advice

By Alan Bentley

Few of us exude the ultimate in self-confidence, especially when we are getting ready to go out on a new date. It's natural to be nervous, excited and to anticipate what could be the start of a long and fruitful relationship and it is normal to feel the butterflies in your stomach. You tend to worry about how you will project yourself and what he will think of you after the first date.

If you are a worrier at heart, you may be seeking a lot of body language advice for your first meeting with the cute guy you have always had your eye on. People say that you can tell a lot about someone just by looking at body language and how do you know whether he is a body language advice expert to start off with!

We can learn from body language advice experts who tell us that we need to come from a position of dominance whenever we meet somebody. This is not to say that you should be aggressive, but rather assertive, as natural confidence appears very palatable to others. Talking a lot does not cut it as a picture will always tell 1000 words. Subconsciously, you won't get the message across.

As human beings, we all have the ability to assess the make up of someone we meet for the first time, even if we don't realize it. We make assumptions based on the "vibes" that we feel and as much of this is derived from the way that we present ourselves, body language advice is often sought.

Maintaining eye contact is the rule number one when listening to body language advice. It is absolutely essential that you do this as it says a lot about a person.Looking at somebody squarely in the eye is a deliberate action and should not be underestimated. Remember not to break your gaze until after he does, as otherwise it is seen as an act of submission.

Don't be rude when you are talking to somebody and focus on other things, be they checking your mail, writing a text, watching the TV or cooking something on the stove. You need to give that person your undivided attention, quite apart from it being rude not to do so.

If you tend to slouch when you are standing or sitting, you need to pay attention to your posture as this is very important when you meet somebody. You could find that you are not devoting enough of your time to your workout regime, which will naturally help you to compose yourself better. Stand really tall and take a deep breath and see how much better you feel.

Nervous gestures come to our aid when we are in awkward or embarrassing situations. You see them all the time -- but nervous twitches, the tapping hand gestures or fee, these can all be very distracting and you need to focus on your inner calm before you do anything!

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Thursday, December 31, 2009

Keeping The Conversation Alive!

By Matt Fuller

Online dating presents us with the golden opportunity to chat to others before meeting in real life which is an ideal ice breaker as opposed to meeting up as complete strangers and also allows us to gauge compatibility.

Although, dating online does have the ability to allow fantasy to override our normal instincts. That's why just because someone has a seemingly nice looking online profile, the offline reality doesn't always match.

It's natural to be nervous on a first date - and nerves are the great enemy of easy, natural conversation. So if you already have been chatting to your potential new love online in a singles chat room, then before you head out on that all-important first date, make a mental note of what he or she has told you about themselves.

It's hard enough getting to know someone first up, so arrange your first date somewhere more interesting than the standard dinner and movie typical date. Go for a picnic by the river, allow nature to help you bond and overcome your shyness in peaceful surroundings.

So picking the venue for your first date is important, especially if you feel you won't win any awards for conversation starters.

Having met online first is a great way to use 'saved up' information to fall back on in times of the conversation flow drying up. Show interest in how you address their questions, and use their questions as a cue to build on other conversation topics.

And be open yourself - if a person sees that you're open, they're be more likely to be open in return. If conversation has stalled, and it's possible to change the venue, do so. Getting out in the night air can help. The other tactic is to just be honest and say, "Hey, I'm just a little nervous here, this being the first date, and I'm not sure what to say." Acknowledging the problem out loud can be a real ice breaker.

Keep the topics of conversation light hearted and on mutual ground. Whilst it's great to have personal views and desires, starting a debate about the politics of current world news is not the best way to offer a worthy first impression.

Be sure not to hog the conversation. A good way to further help achieve this is to make it easy on your date to participate in the conversation by asking more questions about the topic your already engaged in. Avoid straight out yes - no answers at all cost.

Bonny Albo, a writer who has focused on online dating matters, sums up the art of conversation with these words: "Concentrate on adopting your own experiences and interweaving them in with the other individuals answers. By doing so you will be formulating a connection with the individual, producing hooks of information with which to initiate a conversation at a future moment.

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Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Here's How To Meet Women

By Maurice Jackson

Do you want to know where to meet women or what you should do?

Don't know where to find the right girl?

Would you like to know where to meet quality women?

Buddy, you're in luck as this post was made for you!

I hear many guys asking this question, but they just neglect the basics and forget that they have to alter their lifestyle so they meet women. I know this sounds hard to listen to at first, but keep reading. If you always do the same things over and over again, you're just going to get the same result!

Well it's not very different for success with women! This question is for the men who want to learn the right way to meet women. Can you tell me that you've been going out to meet women actively? Are you out there making yourself available? You would have answered your own question if you said no to my question. You need to just go out and talk to females!

Granted you live a busy life. Having said that, I have yet to meet a person who does not have things to tend to in their life? Every person on this earth is busy. Well my friend, I hate to tell you, but that's not a valid reason for you to not be going out to meet women. If you honestly are serious about improving your dating life, you have to take active steps to show up at places where the girls you want will be.

We are talking about your future here, and the rest of your life so it's important. I agree, this is a lot of work and you need to do alot to make things happen, but that's life.

I know what I just wrote sounds like common sense, but I just had to say it!

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Tuesday, December 29, 2009

She Will Be Back With You

By Gracie Edwards

No one can handle a breakup very easily. And you need to be really serious if you want to get your ex girlfriend back to you. Here you will learn some tips that will help you to get onto the right track. In this article you will learn how to make yourself in control of your emotions and as well as the reason why you shouldn't push your ex-girlfriend into acting. You will come to know that it's a good thing to be gentle to your girlfriend.

Questions explained

Don't Let Emotions Run Over You

You will be haunted by all the lousy emotions when you suffer from a breakup. Sometimes you will go crazy thinking about your girlfriend. And you just want to call her or text her and tell her how much you love her and you can't live without her...You know what; these kinds of things won't help. And in the long run they will do more harm than good. You really need to listen to your brain not your heart. That means you should be aware of what you are doing. Don't be slaved by emotions.

Don't Push Your Ex Girlfriend So Hard

After a few weeks, when you can think clearly and you can talk to your ex girlfriend without going nuts and crazy, then you can call your friends and let them know about your ideas. The best case scenario is that she calls you first. In some cases, your ex girlfriend will probably start to think about you.

But under no circumstances should you start to push your ex girlfriend into doing anything. You will start a healthy and normal friendship with her first. Talk to her about the casual stuff. Be happy and be nice. You just want her to know that you can deal with it and your can handle your own life.

Always Be Nice

Your ex girlfriend will begin to feel okay to go to dinner or a movie with you. Every time you meet, be gentle and nice. Be cool and confident. Nobody likes a pathetic loser. We all like those people who can handle their own life. Well after some time she will feel comfortable enough to meet for a coffee or something. So, when she calls you to arrange for a meeting in the near future ,don't act so cranky or start to talk to her about get back together on a rush. She might make a move when she feel comfortable and secure with you.

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Monday, December 28, 2009

Free Online Dating Should Be Based On Mutual Trust

By Girish Jaju

You must care about your assurances when you contact a person through free online dating process. The behavior from the other end may be full of suspicions. Expectations may vary which reflects the behavior you show to the person. This may incite trouble in future relationship. To avoid this, you should be firm in your assurances and explain clearly about your own feelings. The person at the other end should understand the behavior and must make due moderation in his behavior onwards.

Human behavior is susceptible to change in different environments and your partner should be permitted to rectify the behavior accordingly. An offensive behavior can be reined if it is properly managed with patience and trustworthy guidance. You must have in your mind to expect some obnoxious behavior from persons in free online dating. This is a way of allowing the advantage of uncertainty to a person to maintain relationship.

The core issue of the subject is that the abusive behavior originates from the fear of partnership loss and a low level of sensitivity in some people. They have never known rationality. They need proper counseling and it is time that you must decide whether to continue the relationship with the particular individual or not.

You are free to step back once again to get a true partner through free online dating. You can reach a fresh partner through free dating sites and do not have to stick to the old contact any more when things did not work optimistically for you.

You should be able to communicate trust in a person's aptitude to continue with the assurances to keep up the relationship going and reaching its maturity. In case, there is a bit of doubt in the other person's mind, offer encouragement and your eagerness to put trust when the partner desires to reciprocate the same feeling.

Both of you should be truthful in expressing mutual thoughts to each other and have trust to make it a matured relationship. Free online dating makes it simple to look at credentials and credibility of partners before you make decision through free dating sites. Choose the partner with an open mind and suspicion and make it possible through free dating.

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Sunday, December 27, 2009

Learn How To Get An Ex Girlfriend Back

By Tom Freeno

If you have been searching for advice on how to get an ex girlfriend back you may be overwhelmed by all the information out there. I hate to be the one to tel you this but there are no secret tips and strategies that will make her fall in love with you again. However, there are some things you can do that will help you get her back, they just aren't secrets. But, out of all the tips available today there is one that is hardly mentioned and this one may be the most important tip you will ever receive.

This one tip has the power to make her come closer to you or turn away from you. If it is used properly, you will get her back faster than you ever thought possible and your relationship will be stronger than it was even before the break up. I understand that may sound like a bit of an exaggeration, but it isn't. It is just that powerful.

Are you ready to know what the tip is?

It is your Mindset!

Do you feel as though you have just been lied to? If so then just leave this page. However, if you are curious enough to hear more then good for you. If you truly believe that you will get her back, if you truly understand that there is no way you can fail, every action you take will give you a better chance of winning her heart. You need to be consistent and never give up. If you have the proper mindset you will not give up.

Positive thinking and having the proper mindset are often mistaken for being the same thing. However, these are not the same thing. Positive thinking is good, but not near as powerful as having a good mindset.

With positive thinking alone, no action is being taken. When you have a great mindset it will drive you to take action. Having both a proper mindset and thinking positive can be an extremely potent thing when trying to get her back.

If you don't already know, having a strategy is incredibly important for getting her back. Make sure you don't try to develop a strategy without the proper mindset.

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Saturday, December 26, 2009

How Speed Reading Will Work For You

By Dr. Jay Polmar

Just use these hints and you'll increase your reading speed:

You can read lines of text, more easily, by reading groups of words at one time than reading a single word, and your reading speed will increase when you just widen your eye span (peripheral vision).

1. Techniques will teach you have to activate hand-to-eye coordination, then you'll be speed reading quickly and immediately. Increase your reading abilities for business or personal use with just a little practice. You can double, even triple your current rates of reading without hurting comprehension or retention.

Different speed reading techniques for different kinds of reading material:

1. Fiction, especially romance novels. Try speed reading a hot and passionate love scene. You can't! I don't speed read romance novels. I don't know anyone who does.

2. Non-Fiction. Speed reading is perfect in this dimension. Where there is something to learn that is not based on the emotions speed reading is great. And it comes in various forms: newspapers with narrow columns, magazines, with slightly wider columns, books, computer screens, and in the mail and email.

Slow readers struggle. They cant identify the techniques to success and they struggle due to slowing down to identify words that don't understand --- they will see a particular word, slow down, think about its meaning, then restart the reading process. Perhaps they won't sound out all of the words theyve been reading, but they will spend more time on some phrases than others. That's because, they are just skimming across those small sections that are easy to understand.

Creating balance in comprehension and reading speed is what gives us our base reading speed. You will also need to establish a base-line reading speed for what you read the most. There are different techniques for different types of reading, with varying speeds, and comprehension rates.

Study speed reading, and practice doing the exercises, they will improve your reading speed drastically with practice. But, before you begin practicing the speed reading techniques, which you'll learn in the Complete Speed Reading Program, let me suggest that you learn to coordinate your eye-to-pacing finger movement.

In the beginning suggest you reread the same material over and over, until you develop a well-coordinated reading speed. When you feel comfortable with it, your rate of speed will increase almost immediately almost 50%. Then, once you are comfortable practicing at that rate, move on to more advanced techniques that will increase your reading speed further.

Consider this:

1. You will be reading very fast (scan read) pre-reading for important factors 300%.

2. You should use a 50% over normal rate when reading for information overload.

3. Post-read for quick review will be fast reading; just a fast scan. 300-400% faster.

4. For testing, scan before prepare for tests your score speed will be medium fast 200%.

That's how easy it will be. Your mind will be trained to be the perfect learning machine. Just start right now with Complete Speed Reading Course, a beginner course, and intense in-depth program, and audio reinforcement. Its guaranteed to bring you greater triumph.

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Friday, December 25, 2009

A Guide to Buying Celtic Wedding Bands: Material

By Liam Grant

So you've decided on Celtic wedding bands, there are still some decisions to make. Choosing between rings, the main choice is the material of the ring itself. Since there are many alloys on the market for rings, we will look at four popular choices for rings right now. First we will review yellow gold. Then we will move on to white gold. After that, we will learn about titanium. Finally, we will discover tungsten carbide. While there may not be one correct answer, couples will find some alloys are better for their desires.

Traditional yellow gold is probably the most popular choice for wedding rings historically. Its intrinsic value adds to the symbols meaning. Because gold is so soft, it can be re-sized and reshaped. Despite its popularity, yellow gold still has some drawbacks. Because of its malleability, it is easy for the ring to become nicked and scratched and dull as a result. Also, over time some rings lose their shape. Those who plan on keeping their ring on while they perform routine daily tasks like yard work or cleaning may find gold isn't the right material for their ring.

Another popular choice in wedding rings today is white gold. Couples who like the tradition of yellow gold, but don't like its color are often very happy with white gold. White gold is a combination of yellow gold with a zinc, copper, or palladium that gives it a whiter look. A finished white gold ring is coated with rhodium which increases the whiteness of the material. The benefits of white gold are the same as yellow gold. Drawbacks are also similar. White gold can be scratched and bent easily. White gold bands also need to be re-plated with rhodium regularly. Usually every 6-18 months. For some, the benefits outweigh the upkeep, for others it's just another thing to do.

Titanium is a metal that has become more popular in the last few years. Titanium is very light, much lighter than gold and tungsten. Despite the light weight, it remains durable and strong. Finishes can alter the color of titanium slightly, but it is generally gray in color. For active couples that don't want the pressure of maintenance, titanium can be a great material. Some people think that titanium rings cannot be cut off of a persons finger in the case of an accident. Although cutting it is harder than cutting off a gold ring, it can be done. One downside to titanium rings is they cannot be re-sized.

Tungsten carbide is a relatively new ring to the marketplace. To create tungsten carbide, tungsten and carbon materials are combined with a bonding agent. The ceramic mixture that is produced is then cast and the finish it retains is very durable. The finish is very hard to scratch, and the material itself is heavier than gold or silver. The surface will still be able to scratch, but they don't show up as well as they do in gold or even titanium. As with titanium, these rings cannot be re-sized. Also, tungsten rings can actually break if dropped from a height or if involved in rough situations.

For couples selecting a wedding band there are many choices. They can choose one of the materials we have covered or they may elect for materials that we have neglected for the time being. What is critical is that a couple select a ring material that they will be happy with for years to come. Couples who do their research will find they are much happier than a couple that just picked the first things that appealed to them.

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Thursday, December 24, 2009

Will You Be Ready To Move On

By T Dub Jackson

Not all advice ranks among the best advice for broken relationships but if more dishes than sparks seem to be flying lately it's time to decide if the best option is to make up or to move on. Here's the problem though. No one wants to be the bad guy (or girl as the case may be) and call it quits. You may genuinely like the person you're involved with. You may even hope to remain friends. In all honestly, the longer you linger in a relationship that's gone bad the less likely that outcome will be.

Don't hang around hoping the other person will end it or things will suddenly improve. You must make a choice to make things better or call things. How do you know when it's the right time to say, "so long?"

Do You Spend more time Making Up than Making Out?

Some people's way of making up after a fight is through making out. Although this is kind of weird for most of us, many couples end up having steamy sex after a huge fight in order to fill their bills. But what is wrong here is that some of them has to fight first in order to get in the mood. They rely their appetite to arguing which isn't healthy at all.

When was the Last Time You Made Plans Together?

These plans are not about the things you are to do later today, tomorrow, or the next month. It's all about planning out your lives ahead when you and your partner reach the golden age. Living in the present is all that matters as of now, but planning what you want your life would become in the future is way-better than that.

Do You Know Each Other's Dreams?

How long is too long for the person you plan to share your life with? Have you ever shared things about you to someone you want to be with for the rest of your life? It's really a big relief and contentment if you share your life and your future with someone who shares the same ideals ans aspirations with you.

If you're having these problems then the best advice for broken relationships in your case may be to call it quits.

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Wednesday, December 23, 2009

A Diamond: A Gift For All Occasions

By Rich Keys

You can feel the Christmas rush as early as now. It is never too early to plan and shop for our family and friend's Christmas wish list. Instead of feeling downright blue and all stressed out with this busy season, wouldn't it be better to spend the time thinking about what presents would fit each and every loved one. It is important to note that holidays are not just giving out expensive items but trying to figure out what would make our loved ones feel most appreciated with the gifts that we have prepared for them.



A diamond can be one of the most touching presents that anybody can receive, as it shows that you have not only put your money into choosing a present, but also your thought over a careful selection process and the love that you want to show to the lucky person will certainly shine through the gift wrapped package.

The diamond is a very versatile piece of jewellery. It can go very well with any ensemble as well as create elegance in every wardrobe you choose. Diamonds go well with any piece of jewellery, be it a broach, ring, necklace, bracelet, or a pair of earrings to match. A diamond gives you class and fabulous style.

Price is by far the only setback that people think of when purchasing diamonds for their loved ones. Beauty is not cheap nonetheless. It has a price by all means. With the economic recession, people would think twice of buying diamonds for their loved ones no matter how much they want to. However, do not be disheartened because there are online jewellers who offer huge discounts for their services without the stones depreciating in value.

Ravel on the thought of how your loved ones would react and feel when they take their gifts under the Christmas tree and discover that they have been given a diamond for the holidays. You will know for sure that you will never be forgotten. Not in this lifetime.

If you are interested in purchasing a diamond then the best thing that you can do is do as much research on which type of diamond that you wish to buy and how you would like it displayed; remember, because you are spending rather a lot of money on this diamond, the jewellers will more than likely bend over backwards to cater for your needs.

Make the most of this holiday by spending it with family and friends who matter most to you. This is supposed to be a fun and festive season. Celebrate life's roller coaster ride with a smile and hugs for everyone. Do not just give away a diamond for its glitter and prestige, give it to your loved one and make his or her star shine this holiday season.

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Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Online Jewish Dating Service For Singles

By Z Q Zimmberg

If you are looking to choose a Jewish dating service than you should probably do a lot of research. The prices for dating services vary so much and there are so many different options and packages.

The greatest thing is they are specially made for finding somebody Jewish to date. This is often important to marry someone who is the same religion.

Finding somebody special is not easy for anyone and a Jewish dating service may be in a position to help. There are many options to select from with a range of costs to fit any budget.

Online dating and regular dating services are the main choices for singles today. If you want to join a regular Jewish dating service be prepared to spend a lot of money for very few dates. You will usually be able to watch videos of other single members and probably have to go through the interview process. You will then have a matchmaker introduce you to the person you are interested in to see if you two are compatible.

A standard Jewish dating service is incredibly more in depth and hands on. You can even meet with a coordinator in real life and sometimes have to film videos of yourself. You also must be pretty specific with what you believe you're looking for in an individual.

If you really want the newest Jewish dating service than you should probably try dating on the internet. Here you can meet hundreds of thousands of singles for a very low cost. Plus, you also have total control of who you talk to and go out with instead of someone choosing for you.

These dating sites are extremely popular and it's best that you try the free trial before you pay anything. The application to join is generally really short and can be finished in just a few minutes instead of a few hours with a traditional Jewish dating service.

Most people can have a generic profile posted and running in a few short minutes so they can browse other members immediately. It is still the same with almost any type of Jewish dating service that you need to pay before the actual correspondence with other members begins. Most people join the free websites, browse the members, and when they see someone they like, then they pay the fee to contact them.

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Monday, December 21, 2009

First Date Dating Tips for Men That Guarantees for a Second Date

By Janine Hanson

First date dating tips are arguably the most important ones you will ever have. For the reason that if the very first date doesn't go well the way you expected, probably you might not get another chance to date her again. By making your very first date enjoyable and pleasurable, you can make a big difference. You can possibly move into a higher level such as a long term relationship. Not from having a woman not returning your phone calls.

These are the things you should keep in mind to have a successful first date:

Pointer #1: Location to a good first date...

Similar to real estate, location is very critical to a good first date. One of my personal desired first date dating pointer is one that most men do not pay consideration to - will you just skip that movie!!! If you really want to get to know a certain woman, sitting next to them for a very long hour in silence and just staring at the movie screen won't help at all.

Choose a location where you can easily talk and have a good interaction. Planning to go in a club where the music is too loud that you need to shout for her to understand and hear you well, that is not a good idea just like watching a movie on your very first date. Dining in a restaurant or a caf is really good for your first date. In this way, you can have a relaxed conversation and enjoy the moment.

Step No.2: Pick a time that is not stressful

Picking a time of the day that is not too stressful on your first date with a woman you are really interested with; daytime is really advisable for your first date. Lunch out or having a sip of coffee in a caf is more comforting than going out for dinner. And it gives some other options. You can extend your day if you both are having fun during the date. And if things are not working out well, you can ask for a few additional hours and your night is still free.

Step No.3: Prepare a back-up plan

The first date dating mistake men usually do is not making a backup plan in case is not working out well. They always think that they do not really need it. But I am not hoping that you will never encounter this kind of problem. You should always be prepared and make a good back-up plan; that is a plus factor with your first date.

Tip No.4: Say what you really think

During your conversation on your very first date, it is not advisable to ask some controversial issues to a woman. She might get upset if you ask her these things. And while you are planning for your first date, you should let her know what type of dress she will wear suitably for your date. Let her know what about your plans, where the place is and what you will be wearing. She should wear something comfortable and not overly dressed.

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Sunday, December 20, 2009

Want My Ex Back What To Do

By Gracie Edwards

Are you thinking about your ex crazily and your still want your ex back? Are you seeking for tips online all day on how to win back your girlfriend, your boyfriend? Okay, you just find a little gem here. The following paragraphes will help you to avoid making mistake and make the right decision to get your ex back.

Don't Get Desperate

Actually, it is really unnecessary to do that. In case you haven't notice this, please don't become too desperate in any circumstances. Spend your time with your families and go out with your friends and have fun. Just get your ex completely out of your mind for the time being. Be sure to keep that in mind, that is crucial.

Get Yourself Heard And Noticed

You then have to start a healthy communication with your ex a month or so after the breakup. If you want to get your ex back, you have to let him or her know that. Tell him or her you still want him or her back and what you will do to make things better.

Cliche: Never Give Up

Never get disappointed if things don't work out the way you want them to. That's very normal.This will take some. Actually you have to give your ex and yourself some time and space after the breakup. Be nice when you give your ex some time to e to calm down and rethink the breakup.

Repeat What Works

You need to find the best rewarding action. What makes your ex feel better about you? And what makes the situation worse? Are you making any mistakes? Find out the things that will help you get your ex back and do better next time. If you've some mistakes before, make sure you are not gonna to make those mistakes again.

Don't you think these are all simple and easy and you don't want to do these. But these things are really useful if you take action. If you do all these, you will surely see some results.

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Saturday, December 19, 2009

Dating Tips For Men- Mistakes You Might Be Doing With Women

By Janine Hanson

As we probably all know, dating is really not easy. No one can guarantee that you can have success with women. And in actual fact, a lot of men think that women are very confusing that they often affix themselves to the first woman who pays them any attention.

To tell you frankly, there are a lot of dilemmas when it comes to the world of dating; it is not easy to handle it all. From the things men frequently do, and not from the women who do some actions. In this article, being matchmaking expert and base on my own observation, I want to pin down some of the most usual mistakes guys make with girls.

First Common Mistake: You don't have the guts to approach her

You can't get her attracted to you if you don't have the guts to make an approach. A lot of men just wait for the "right" time before they approach the woman they like. But in reality, there is no "right" moment to approach a woman. It does not really exist. If you see the woman you really admire, then do not be hesitant and have enough guts to greet her. Approach her but of course in a correct conduct. The most appalling thing that could happen is if she refuses. Well you have to face the rejection.

#2- You do not believe in your own self

In no doubt I know that you have heard this countless times, but it is really worth it to repeat it again.

A lot of women want a guy that has self confidence. If you do not have this attitude, then you are possibly wasting a precious chance to get her attention. For the reason that you do not have enough self confidence, you only show that you will just bore her and you won't get any good impression from her. An example for it is this: A guy who always seeks for approval from other people.

A man with self confidence has a pride but not conceited. And also, he has an impressive personality without any need to show off. By having this mind-set, you can easily get the attraction of women. You should be confident in any situation you will meet.

Third Common Mistake: Telling Lies

Pretending like you are somebody else is one of the fastest ways to obliterate a possible relationship with the woman you definitely adore. Guys are commonly judged based on what they say than actions. As a result, if you feel that you need to pretend to get their attention instantly, then you are putting yourself up in a crucial situation. Honest confident men don't need to be brag off and tell lies consistently. He knows that the truth will prevail for the better outcomes- more than establishing a fake personality.

Now, we are all to blame of telling those lies, petty lies. Though, if you often need to lie to the woman you adore just to impress her and for things to go the way you expect it, you are just dumping your precious moment. Afterward, it will chase you down.

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