Wednesday, August 19, 2009

How To Win Back Lost Love

By Peter Griffin

You can win back a lost love. You may only have one chance to repair the relationship and you don't want to regret it later if you don't. Start today by using these powerful techniques that are proven to work.

Be dedicated and remain concentrated on your strategies. You will find it effortless to pay no heed to the help from others now that you are lucid in what you want.

If this person is your lost love, then trust your own judgment. You know them better than anyone else so you should be able to work out how best to get them to return to you.

Be convinced of your wants and needs, particularly because you are not making an effort to revive your relationship as a way to remedy your fear of being alone. Be alone is often enjoyable as well, it simply requires that you get used to it.

It is hard to be objective when emotions are involved so it is always a good idea to write down a list of all the reasons why you want this person back. Also write down a list of why the relationship failed. Obviously you would expect the first list to be the long one!

Often we feel, when older, that you should have done something that we didn't when younger. You always wonder what could have been if you had tried to repair the relationship. After all, not all breakups are the right decision. It's a pity when people that should be together, are not.

People distracted by the emotions of a breakup often do things they should not, like abandon a relationship. Make a plan to get back together with your ex if you feel that the breakup was a mistake.

It may require patience and carefulness to repair the relationship. This is especially true if you did something to hurt your ex. He or she will not be thrilled to get back together with you if they are bitter.

Real life is not like the movies. Not all love stories are meant to have a happy ending. If you want to get back together with your ex, be sure that you are clear on the reason why the breakup occurred in the first place. If you don't solve the problem now, it will only return again later, and in greater severity.

For example, there are some issues that make it hard to get back together. If the cause of the breakup was because he or she wants kids and you do not, it will be hard to repair this relationship. The desire to have children is strong and you can't take that away from someone who really wants it. This is likely more powerful than their love for you.

You should really go for it if your problems are those that can be solved with some work. If your feelings are strong you should try because you don't want to have regrets later. It is better to try and fail than to never try.

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