Thursday, November 19, 2009

How To Know When A Guy Is Attracted To You

By Sarah Nichols

It is important for the fairer sex to know if a particular likes her or not. This becomes a pertinent question because girls are usually very emotional and they want to ascertain the truth faster.

Well, a little serious observation of the behavior pattern of your man with you and with others will ascertain the fact. Compare and contrast his behavior. If he behaves the same with everyone, then he doesn't like you. But if he gives you a special behavior then certainly there are some sparks in the making.

How to know that a guy is attracted to you, seems like the most difficult question, but it is usually not so. Women are usually confused and can not make out by the behavior of the guy that whether he is interested in you so he is just a friend.

Well there are some behavior patterns in men that distinctly show up in their behavior towards the girl they like. One needs to observe him closely. Following are the ways in which you can find out whether the guy is interested in you or not -


Read his body language- He will make an extra effort to touch you, hug you or hold you. This he will normally be not doing with others. He will be happy with you. He will always try to take the closest seat to you, even in a group. This shows that he loves your physical closeness and wants to be with you most of the times. This is suggestive of his attraction for you.

Compare his treatment with you and with other girls - if he makes you feel special in what so ever way, then he is surely interested in you. He is more comfortable with you, hangs out more with you, gives you this passing glance, offers to get a drink for you or offers to leave you home. Consider it as a special behavior and an extra effort. Remember guys make an extra effort only if they are attracted to a girl.

Eye contact - eyes are the mirrors of your heart. A guy who is interested in you will love to look at you and if caught seeing you, will either make an excuse or just shy away. But whatever, he will always try to be at such a distance or angle from where he can see you uninterrupted. To be surer of his feelings, look straight into his eyes and I am sure he will not be able to conceal his feeling, if he is genuinely interested in you.

So, the guy who likes you will try to impress you in all ways will look for you always and will grow possessive about you. All these are signs of his growing attraction for you. The comfort level that e share with you is decisive to ascertain his likeness for you.

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