Thursday, January 21, 2010

Win a Girlfriend Back After a Break Up

By Sara Summers

Saving a relationship and getting a girl back is not an easy thing to do. If you make just one wrong move, you will often worry of losing her forever.

However, usually what you feel is the right thing to do is actually not the right thing to do. Many times we should follow the "counterintuitive path". What do you have to do then? So, whenever you feel like picking up the phone and calling the girl you love, stop yourself. That is the right time when you should stay cool. Also, whenever you feel like expressing your feelings out, that is the time when you should just stop thinking about the girl you love and not talk about her either.

There are counterintuitive techniques that you can use. These counterintuitive techniques that you will discover now may be new to you, and might seem inappropriate and may feel wrong, but in fact, these techniques have been proven every time to be really effective in the most complicated situations.

The first technique is that you must agree and accept the fact that your girlfriend has broken up with you. It is very difficult to do but you have to do it.

It is better that you understand why you need to accept the breakup, and how it can help you get back together. The main reason is that, you should give time to her to respect and miss you again. Of course, she is probably mad or upset with you right now, especially if you keep on talking about getting back together again.

The second technique is that you must cut off all communication. Trust me, this technique actually really works! In fact, it even helps you to accept the breakup. It will also show your girl that you are really serious about breaking up with her. Stopping all communication allows her to miss you and get over the reasons for breaking up with you. Giving some space will also sets you up for the next technique in how to win a girlfriend back.

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1 comment:

munkeh said...

Additionally, with the counter intuitive methods, you might be able to not only let your ex go, but even find better options out there. Just my two cents.