Monday, February 21, 2011

Bad Guy or Nice Guy - What Gets More Dates?

By Mike Morton


Showing that you respect other people, women in particular, should be second nature to you. You'll have no problem attracting women if you're the polite, gentlemanly type. But how to impress woman with this trait that sadly, a lot of guys lack?

Being respectful is just one of the traits in a long list that women look for in potential mates. You may be already have some of the traits in the list, but what about the other requirements women want in a boyfriend or future partner?

Tops is being sensitive. Women bemoan that men are by nature insensitive human beings. So show that you're making effort to be in touch with your feminine side. Be a good listener. Ask her how her day went, or be mindful if she's in a bad mood. Hold the door for her when she passes through. Prove to her that you're not the unaffected, unfeeling guy that you are.

Be confident. Women get attracted to confident guys, men who know how to handle themselves and who aren't insecure. Show this through smart conversation. Look her in the eye when you talk.

Show some appreciation. Compliment her when you know she made that extra effort in looking good. Make sure that it's a genuine compliment, not something you felt you needed to say just to make her feel good. Tell her she's beautiful, and that she's the only woman for you.

Thoughtfulness. It's imperative that you remember birthdays and anniversaries. Greet her on special occasions. Bring her flowers, or better yet, go up to her and greet her in person. This would mean a lot more than expensive gifts or dinners in fancy restaurants.

Open your lines of communication. Being a good conversationalist means being a good listener too, so brush up on your communication skills. Studies have shown that women talk a lot more than men, so be patient and listen to her. Women often need someone who'll listen more than someone who'll offer solutions.

The challenge is to do these things like it's second nature to you, which should be the case in the first place. Don't let her feel that it's put on just to please her and make you look good. Genuinely show respect, be on your best behavior, and you'll win her over in no time.




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