Okay, I must say congratulations for your first date! If you're reading this, you certainly had a flourishing appointment and you've followed the first date tips for boys I assume. She really liked you didn't she? Well don't get very cocky on this, even if you had a good connection that doesn't mean you don't have to go on with the next steps. So buckle up for the second date tips for boys. I still trust that there's no such thing as a science for the first date or second date but over the learning process you can evolve in this relationship and it will be more fluid if you consider these advices:
Get closer to her. Yes, get closer physical also, but simultaneously try to get to know her better, discover what she likes, discover things you have in common. While you get to know her more and more make more physical touch as well. See how she reacts when you hold her hand. This way you communicate her being a potential kiss will come, and she'll begin to feel cozy about it. Don't be aggressive, just keep being yourself. If she likes you, she'll surely want the kiss, but she has to feel comfy first. Life is plenty of contradictions so you can expect she kisses you before you even attempt or she pushes you away when your lips come close. Try to pay attention to her and there shouldn't be too many surprises.
Get the nicest positioning. If the first date was in a usual restaurant, the second date has to be more interactive. It's best that you don't take her to a movie or Opera. Contrast is essential in maintaining involvement between you two so if the first appointment was more formal try to make your second date informal. Play something with her, or go skating together. There are loads of choices. But be sure to have the decent comfy surroundings too. A place to seat will be great to build up that comfort level possibly you'll kiss her for the first time right there (unless you kissed her on the first date ahem, ok this is going to be the foremost make-out session then).
Have fun again. If you had fun the first date when you were both worried and didn't know each other at all, this time you should be laughing out loud the whole time (ok, not that much, but you get the idea). Maybe you won't even her this time but you can surely have lots of fun.
One of the best second date tips is this: try to plan the 3rd date right now when you're having fun with her based on what you have in common. Do it together, and if she accepts she's likely considering already you're her future boyfriend. And remember, if the second date goes well, you have to make a really dumb thing to lose her now. So the chances are on your side. But I'm confident you'll do just fine.
Get closer to her. Yes, get closer physical also, but simultaneously try to get to know her better, discover what she likes, discover things you have in common. While you get to know her more and more make more physical touch as well. See how she reacts when you hold her hand. This way you communicate her being a potential kiss will come, and she'll begin to feel cozy about it. Don't be aggressive, just keep being yourself. If she likes you, she'll surely want the kiss, but she has to feel comfy first. Life is plenty of contradictions so you can expect she kisses you before you even attempt or she pushes you away when your lips come close. Try to pay attention to her and there shouldn't be too many surprises.
Get the nicest positioning. If the first date was in a usual restaurant, the second date has to be more interactive. It's best that you don't take her to a movie or Opera. Contrast is essential in maintaining involvement between you two so if the first appointment was more formal try to make your second date informal. Play something with her, or go skating together. There are loads of choices. But be sure to have the decent comfy surroundings too. A place to seat will be great to build up that comfort level possibly you'll kiss her for the first time right there (unless you kissed her on the first date ahem, ok this is going to be the foremost make-out session then).
Have fun again. If you had fun the first date when you were both worried and didn't know each other at all, this time you should be laughing out loud the whole time (ok, not that much, but you get the idea). Maybe you won't even her this time but you can surely have lots of fun.
One of the best second date tips is this: try to plan the 3rd date right now when you're having fun with her based on what you have in common. Do it together, and if she accepts she's likely considering already you're her future boyfriend. And remember, if the second date goes well, you have to make a really dumb thing to lose her now. So the chances are on your side. But I'm confident you'll do just fine.
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