You can find passionate love stories everywhere in the world. I am sure some of your friend have had some. But what was in common with the most passionate ones? Did all of them end?
Why do passionate love stories end. I don't know, probably because the level it has at the beginning is not sustainable, so when the high drops to a more calm and peaceful experience, people get scared or confused and think it is all gone .
When the first higher part is over, it does not mean, that a passionate love story is now over all together and is never going to come back. It is not all gone, it is just a bit different, not worse, but different. You can simply ask yourself whether you see yourself with your partner in the future. If you can see yourself together, it is not all gone at all, it can even be better than it was.
If your passionate love story has lost its passion, how do you decide what do you have to do now? You can think about your personal goals for the future, they can help. So, where do you want to be in the future, in five years time?
Asking the questions about your future is so important. Asking the right questions are even more important. Be careful what you measure, because this is where you focus your life.
What is more important for you, the feeling of being in love, or that person who is next to you? When time goes by, the personal qualities become more and more important.
After the passionate part is fading away, becomes the part of truth. Then it becomes apparent whether you made a good choice finding a partner or was it simply chemistry. Not that having chemistry would be bad at all. It is great :)
It takes some courage and effort to decide whether to keep it going or have a painful brake up. No one can answer this for you, You have the chance to find your own answers. Usually they come by courage and trial and error.
In any case, it takes two to continue happily.
Why do passionate love stories end. I don't know, probably because the level it has at the beginning is not sustainable, so when the high drops to a more calm and peaceful experience, people get scared or confused and think it is all gone .
When the first higher part is over, it does not mean, that a passionate love story is now over all together and is never going to come back. It is not all gone, it is just a bit different, not worse, but different. You can simply ask yourself whether you see yourself with your partner in the future. If you can see yourself together, it is not all gone at all, it can even be better than it was.
If your passionate love story has lost its passion, how do you decide what do you have to do now? You can think about your personal goals for the future, they can help. So, where do you want to be in the future, in five years time?
Asking the questions about your future is so important. Asking the right questions are even more important. Be careful what you measure, because this is where you focus your life.
What is more important for you, the feeling of being in love, or that person who is next to you? When time goes by, the personal qualities become more and more important.
After the passionate part is fading away, becomes the part of truth. Then it becomes apparent whether you made a good choice finding a partner or was it simply chemistry. Not that having chemistry would be bad at all. It is great :)
It takes some courage and effort to decide whether to keep it going or have a painful brake up. No one can answer this for you, You have the chance to find your own answers. Usually they come by courage and trial and error.
In any case, it takes two to continue happily.
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You can read Charlie Mai-s articles about love here: Finding your true love story and some poetic thoughts here: Find true love
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