A lot of singles have taken to online dating like ducks take to water because it works or, at minimum, it can work. Women are, more often, terrified of meeting a man that they have been chatting to on the Internet.
They have all heard the scary things that can happen and, it is true that they have the right to be careful. That's not only wise but vital. So what's a nice guy supposed to do? You aren't a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for the right girl for you.
You must be patient. Do not press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don't try to rush her into meeting you face-to-face. She will think you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.
Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and then there you are back at square one.
A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just of your head. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn't just see your head, would she?
Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she may like to bring a friend with her.
When all is said and done, you have nothing to hide and everything to gain. You have already told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a few photos of you. Then only thing left to do is to is make her feel safe meeting you!
They have all heard the scary things that can happen and, it is true that they have the right to be careful. That's not only wise but vital. So what's a nice guy supposed to do? You aren't a pervert, a sexual predator, or a weirdo. You are just a nice guy looking for the right girl for you.
You must be patient. Do not press her for personal information like her real name or where she lives. Keep your conversations light and fun until she feels comfortable talking with you online. Don't try to rush her into meeting you face-to-face. She will think you are desperate or a pervert. Patience. Patience. Patience.
Be absolutely honest about your physical appearance and job. A good relationship has never been, and will never be, built on lies and deceit. Eventually she will find out the truth anyway and then there you are back at square one.
A picture really is worth a thousand words. Post many pictures of yourself doing your everyday activities and make them full body shots, not just of your head. If you were dating a girl in the real world she wouldn't just see your head, would she?
Once the discussion has been opened about meeting face-to-face for the first time, suggest that you meet in a very public place, during daylight hours and that she may like to bring a friend with her.
When all is said and done, you have nothing to hide and everything to gain. You have already told her the truth about yourself and she has already seen a few photos of you. Then only thing left to do is to is make her feel safe meeting you!
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