Monday, March 26, 2012

The perfect treatment for your nagging character

By Alex Shant


It is a very bad thing to constantly remind your partner to do the things that you want him to do. In fact, it is one of the worst things you can do to your partner. By doing this, you are not only becoming a nagger, you are also becoming a materialistic girlfriend. Before we go through the process of curing your nagging character, let us first define what nagging and being a nagger is.

Nagging is the act of constantly and forcefully prompting people about things using manipulation. Take for instance, if you want your boyfriend to see you every night, you are a nagger if you remind him 1 hour before and call him every 5 minutes just to remind him not to be late. You are more of a nagger if you remind him how late he was on your previous meeting. You are also more of a nagger if you emphasize that he is a no good boyfriend because he is late all the time.

Another example of being a nagger is by putting too much pressure on your boyfriend to give you things that he has problem getting. You are also a nagger if you are constantly jealous of his exes and you keep on checking on him and his whereabouts.

Curing your nagging spirit requires force on your end. If you want are unhappy of being the nagger that you are, you have to sacrifice a lot of things just so you could change your character. One way of changing your nagging ways is to start doing a lot of mediation exercises. Mediating can free your mind from worries and stress.

Having fun is also another cure for your nagging character. Meet new people and mingle with a lot of friends. Contact your old pals from elementary and high school and set a date when you can have some coffee or a party together. Meeting people from the past can free your mind from being too paranoid about your love. Instead, you will be reminiscing happy memories of the past.




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