Everyone wants to be with your ex after every break up. This is the initial reaction of a man or woman who just separated with a person he loves the most. However, not all relationships are good enough for a second chance. Not all exes are worthy enough. As a matter of back, sometimes, the break up is a wake up call saying you should explore other possibilities. Before you try to get back with him, check if he is worth it. Here are the things you should consider.
No more cheaters. If he is a cheater, in no way get back with him. A cheating man will always cheat more than often and he will never stop. Cheating is like an addiction; once you start you cannot stop. So never expect a change in him even if he says he will change.
No possessive manners. If he was very possessive when you were still together, do not get back with him. Being possessive is never a plus in a relationship. A dog becomes rebellious when strapped on a very tight leach. If he always inquire where you are and is very jealousy with other men, it means he is not confident or he is over confident he wants you all to himself.
Lack of openness. If he never opens about his personal life when you were together, he will never share it when you get back together. Never expect him to change just because of the break up. Things like this are not learned. If he does not share with you, it means he does not consider you special enough and will probably find another woman to share his stories with.
Lastly, does he listen to you? When you were together, does he listen to you often? If he doesn't then he is not worth your effort. Go get a man that extends his ears widely to you.
No more cheaters. If he is a cheater, in no way get back with him. A cheating man will always cheat more than often and he will never stop. Cheating is like an addiction; once you start you cannot stop. So never expect a change in him even if he says he will change.
No possessive manners. If he was very possessive when you were still together, do not get back with him. Being possessive is never a plus in a relationship. A dog becomes rebellious when strapped on a very tight leach. If he always inquire where you are and is very jealousy with other men, it means he is not confident or he is over confident he wants you all to himself.
Lack of openness. If he never opens about his personal life when you were together, he will never share it when you get back together. Never expect him to change just because of the break up. Things like this are not learned. If he does not share with you, it means he does not consider you special enough and will probably find another woman to share his stories with.
Lastly, does he listen to you? When you were together, does he listen to you often? If he doesn't then he is not worth your effort. Go get a man that extends his ears widely to you.
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