Tuesday, May 1, 2012

Frequent Problems in a Relationship to Avoid

By Alex Shant


There are no flawless relationships. Sooner or later, couples will bump into a fight or have minor issues that lead to major issues if not resolve in time. Experts say that if you see a problem coming even before the signs of it, you have to avoid it. This is why it is normal for people within a relationship to confront each other. After all, communication is the key to a successful relationship. Here are the common problems that one should avoid to have a wonderful relationship.

Avoid not having time. Time is the key. Physical attention is way better than virtual communication. Calling and mere texting is not the key to a healthy relationship. Once in a while, you have to be with each other to show affection. If likely, spend nights with your partner. Closeness with each other will avoid the gap between you two.

Avoid being too possessive. Give your partner time for himself. Refrain from always asking about his whereabouts. It comes irritating at all times. Give him the privilege to be the one to inform you where he is. A trustful person gains respect from his partner.

Avoid not listening. Listen to your partner at all times. It is through this that you will know him better. It is also through this that you will be able to gradually put yourself in his life. On the same way, he will also realize your worth because you listen. Men like women who listen because it is a sign that she will take care of him in times of dilemma. It is also a hint that she is wife material. On the other hand, listening to him will also make him listen to you in return.

Avoid being too distant. Share about your life. It is normal to be uncomfortable in sharing about your life. But it is only through this that you will be closer. Share gradually if you like. It doesn't matter how much your share as long as you give him new information about you once in a while.




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