Sunday, May 20, 2012

How to prevent the break up

By Andre Skillet


Breaks ups always come. Whether we like it or not, there will always be problems arriving in relationships. Some problems are easy to solve and some are not. Break ups occur when a problem is already unsolvable or was not resolve at the right time. Here are the things you should do to prevent the break up from happening.

Be open to him if you have problems. Inform him if something is bothering you. If you feel that there is distance between the two of you, tell him. There is no harm in being open to him. It is even a plus.

Never accuse him of anything. It is purely bad to accuse a person of something whether or not he did something bad or not. You always have to have evidence on hands. However, instead of accusing, ask him nicely. Asking in a form of a joke is the best thing you can do.

Always be rational. Seeing the issue within two perspectives and with gray areas is always a plus. Accept defeat if it is indeed your fault. Ask him to accept defeat if it is his fault. Being open in many ways will help strengthen your relationship.

Be honest. Honestly is the best policy. A cliche is a cliche for a reason. Thus, be honest at all times. Tell him why you were late and he will tell you why he was. The key is doing the golden rule. Do things you want him to do to you.

Compliment your partner and as much as possible, say something nice to your partner every day. Tell him that he looks good or he is smart and funny. Laugh at all times. A good laugh makes a good relationship. Watch funny films that will ignite laughter. As they say, laughter is the best medicine so laugh at all times. Laugh when you have problems. Laugh after a fight. Laugh when one of you is sad.




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